Stephanie share this piece,I find it quite interesting so I
decided to bring it here
1. Stop Taking Each Other Down:
For a woman, it is another woman. As women, we need
to stop taking each other down with our words and
actions and rather focus on lifting each other up. The
world would be a much better place if we all did that.
2. Stop Comparing:
As women, we find it so easy to look at ourselves and
compare varying qualities that other women possess.
Each of us is created in our own unique and special way.
Let us try taking the time to realize the unique qualities
that each of us has rather than comparing.
3. Fighting Over Guys
Obviously, if your best girlfriend has an affair with your
guy, you have every right to scream and yell. That kind
of betrayal warrants anger, for sure. But most times, we
should take our anger out on our partners rather than
the other girl. Also, if your girlfriend is in a relationship
and you are not, don’t allow your jealousy and
frustration to get in the way of your friendship.
4. Criticizing Other People’s Weight:
There are very polite ways to make a complement on
another woman’s weight. But saying “oh my gosh you’re
so skinny” or “wow, you’ve added so much weight!”
might be more hurtful than we think it is.
5. Withholding Compliments
Not only is it bad to compliment someone negatively, it
is also wrong to withhold good compliments. If your
girlfriend has a really nice hairstyle on, or has lost some
weight and is looking great, go ahead and say it to her.
6. Telling each Other's Secret:
It’s really sad to confide in someone and find out that
the person has let out your secret to the wrong person.
Ladies, let’s not do this to ourselves.
7. Not been Supportive:
Many times as women, we desert our friends when they
need us the most. Its our friend’s wedding, birthday,
graduation, store opening…. and because we feel a
certain way about that achievement or milestone, we
don’t give our support. So wrong.
8. Stop Competing:
I wish I could scream this. Not everything in life is a
competition. No one has to really ‘win’ that best dressed
award or most expensive bag title. Focus on your own
qualities that are unique and special to you.
9. Comparing Our Bodies:
Hey ladies, we really need to stop this. Many of us have
done harmful things to our bodies in a bid to look like
the next person. Love who you are and don’t think you
need to look like anyone else.
10. Stop Hating:
I really didn’t know what to title this last point. It might
not be the appropriate word to use, but have you noticed
that some women just don’t like other women for
absolutely NO REASON? I’ve heard this a lot of times “I
don’t like that lady” and when you ask why, the response
is “I don’t know, I just don’t like her“. Maybe she walks
or talks in a certain way that you don’t feel comfortable
with and because of that, you conclude that you don’t
like her even though you hardly know her!
This gets me confused. Let’s continue this discussion in
the comment section. Ladies, why do you think we do
this to each other? How can we stop such habits?
What other things do we need to stop doing to each
other?
