#1 She's Just a Friend. ..
You discover he's been talking to someone
new, who is a female. He hasn't said anything
to you about her before you finding out about
her and when you ask him if you can meet her,
he objects. It's because she's really not a
friend, she's a #girlfriend.
#2 Respect My Privacy. Don't Touch My
Phone...
He doesn't want you to touch his phone for
fear that you will either see text messages
from her or that she will send one just as you
pick it up. He may even have pictures of her
on his phone.
#3 You Are Cheating on Me, Aren't You?
Yes, men who cheat will accuse their partner
of cheating. Why? It's because they start to
think, "Well, if I can do it, she could do it too."
#4 You Aren't Good Enough...
All of a sudden he pokes at all of the things
you do wrong and you have no idea what his
problem is. He can't cheat if he loves you or
he thinks that you are good to him. So he
makes himself believe that you aren't good
enough for him and that's why he had to turn
to someone else. In reality, you are more than
good enough.
#5 I Can do My Own Laundry ...
At first, you might think he's being sweet for
helping you out. Unfortunately, he's doing it
so he can hide his soiled pants, perfume smell
or some other evidence of his liaison with his
lady friend.
#6 I Have to Stay after to Catch up on Work ...
All of a sudden he has more work than he
knows what to do with and he can't come
home when he normally does. It's because
he's not really at work, instead he's meeting
with his girlfriend without worry that you'll
catch him.
#7 After he is Caught...I Still Love You and
Want to Be with You ...
He says he loves you and wants to be with
you; yet, he strayed and told someone else the
same thing. It's because he wasn't having the
affair because he didn't love you anymore, he
had it because he was disillusioned from
reality.
#8 I Didn't Want to Hurt You ...
He's right, when he went out to have the
affair, he wasn't thinking, "I am going to sleep
with this other woman because I want to hurt
her so incredibly bad." Instead, he did it for
his own selfish reasons without giving any
thought to how it would hurt you.
#9 I Don't Want to Lose You ...
In his last attempt to salvage any type of
relationship with you, he may blurt out that he
doesn't want to lose you. You might think,
"What did you think would happen when you
chose to cheat on me?" Again, he never tied
sleeping with someone else and losing you
together. This may be a complete shock to
him that you are actually leaving.
#10 She Means Nothing to Me ...
She might not mean anything to him or he's
lying. Usually, men who have affairs may not
have wanted to get involved emotionally, but
after sleeping with them multiple times,
feelings start to develop. So, in most cases,
he's lying that she means nothing to him,
what he really means to say is that he doesn't
want her over you.
