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Saturday, 28 March 2015

What would you do if your spouse prevents you from voting?


Usually, many couples look forward to spending their
weekends with their families after a long week at work. Some
of them believe they would not have a better time to do such
as they spend the rest of the week in their offices. Now that
an election is coming up today, SATURDAY PUNCH asked
some people what they would do if their spouses ask them to
spend time with them rather than go out to vote
I have to exercise my civic rights
Semilore Akinbola
It is important that I play my part in building the future of this
country, especially now. If I fail to go and vote, the bright
future of Nigeria that I have been clamouring for would not
come to fruition. This is the time to make it happen – by my
vote. I expect my wife to understand that I have civic rights,
which include the right to vote, and do it for whoever I want.
She should respect that and not hinder me from voting.
I can’t discuss Nigeria if I don’t vote
Mercy Ihwiwi
My husband is surely the head of the family but that has
limitations. In an ideal situation, I expect every man to
encourage their spouse to go out and vote for who they want
to be their leaders. Doing so, we are securing the future of our
children. Talking about my husband, he has to allow me to
perform my civic responsibility so that if people are discussing
Nigeria anywhere, I would have the boldness to say
something because I voted. I cannot talk or complain about
our leaders if I don’t vote.
She has to bear with me for that day
Thompson Abolade
We can always have many other Saturdays to spend time
together after the elections have come and gone. If she
understands the meaning of ‘sacrifice’ for the future, she
would not have any problem with me not being with her on
that day. As a matter of fact, I expect her to even encourage
me to exercise my right to vote as a citizen of Nigeria. I
expect her to also go out and vote and let us sacrifice
romance at least for that day.
I don’t even have a PVC
Oyinkan Esther
To start with, I do not have the Permanent Voters Card. After
many attempts to collect it and I could not, I did not disturb
myself again because it occurred to me that some caucuses
have already decided the winners and losers of this election
whether Nigerians vote or not. This is not right. Our electoral
process, including the collection of the PVC, should not be so
tedious as this. It makes people like me frustrated. Assuming
I got my PVC, I would have gladly loved to vote despite any
circumstance.
We’re going to vote together
Adeleke Adekoya
What would she be doing at home while I’m out there to vote
on Saturday? I will definitely not allow her to do anything else
when people are casting their votes, deciding the future of the
country. I will persuade her to also perform her civic
responsibility. The election is about her, I and our children’s
future, so she has to be prepared to vote with me.
He has to take me along to vote
Ajayi Adesewa
“Anywhere he goes she goes” is the beauty of marriage. So if
my husband is voting, I expect him to encourage me to also
do even when I don’t feel like doing so. Discouragement
comes when people vote and see no results for their voting. I
have also been discouraged because all these years that I’ve
been doing so, I have not witnessed the kind of
transformation I want in this country. Corruption and some
other evil deeds are the order of the day, which is not normal.
All these have frustrated me. However, if my husband still
wants to vote, he can take me along.
I’ll decide based on the situation of things
Oluwafikayo Ajayi
One cannot readily have an answer for this type of question,
especially in the face of insecurity and thuggery which had
always been associated with our elections in the past. Though
I don’t pray for such to happen this time around, if I suspect
something like that, I may tell her not to go out. As a man, I
can go out to vote while she takes care of the children at
home. It’s about protecting my family.
My civic rights prevail over his order
Mary Aborisade
On matters like this, my civic rights prevail over my husband’s
order of not going out to vote. It is a man with no
understanding that will prevent his wife from voting. My
husband is no such and so I believe he would allow me to go
and vote. There are many other weekends that we will enjoy
together after the elections have come and gone. So I’ll
persuade him to stay calm.
There’s no turning back on voting
Mohammed Abba
As for the 2015 elections, especially the presidential one, I
cannot miss it. I must register my presence by voting for my
candidate of choice. There is no U-turn on this because it has
been decided. So, nobody can prevent me from voting, even
my wife. Even if my candidate loses, at least I would know
that I have played my part. Meanwhile, I do not pray for any
incident that would discourage me from voting to occur. For
instance, if one’s spouse falls critically ill on that day, there’s
no way one would leave her and go to vote. Family comes
first before any other thing.
If he insists, I may not vote
Jelilat Oyeronke
A little issue at times could degenerate into something
unpalatable, especially when it comes to marriage. That is
why as a wife, I have to be very cautious of my actions, even
when I know I am right. Perhaps my husband fears that there
could be violence during the course of the election, he may
ask me to stay indoors. I have to obey him as he is doing his
first duty, which is to protect his wife. However, I don’t pray
for such to happen. I want to not only witness this election, I
want to be a part of it and I hope it would come and go hitch-
free.

No big deal in another man kissING my wife –Nobert Young


Nobert Young
Veteran actor, Nobert Young, tells Ademola Olonilua about his
career and family
At what point in your life did you decide to become an actor?
That was a very long time ago. It was even before I entered
primary school because I used to watch my sister and my
father direct school plays and concerts. I was very interested
in what they did. As I grew older, the interest did not die. In
1977, I saw, Langbodo, at FESTAC and that made me take the
decision to become an actor. I later went to the University of
Ibadan to study Theatre Arts.
So your father was also into entertainment?
No, my father was a headmaster and in those days, the
headmaster played a lot of roles. One of the roles he played
was to direct the school concert which I watched him do
often.
How would you describe your childhood?
I was a very happy child while growing up. I was the last born
out of eight children. My father was a headmaster and he later
became a produce examiner at the Ministry of Agriculture. My
mother was a nurse and she just died recently. I grew up in a
very big compound and the whole of Sapele, Delta State, was
my play ground. There were no restrictions and I grew up as a
very happy child.
Were you pampered by your parents as the last born?
I did not notice it because my mother did not spare me when I
misbehaved. When it was time to be pampered, she did that
but I did not notice any preferential treatment. I was very
stubborn and my mother was very ready for me. She beat me
very well when I misbehaved. I learnt how to do everything. I
washed plate, ground pepper and beans on grinding stones. I
could cook but they did not allow me. The training I got from
my mother helped me when I began to live alone.
Were your parents skeptical when you decided to make acting
your career?
They did not frown at it because I come from a family of
actors even though they did not take it to the professional
level. Before I went to school to study Theatre Arts, my father
had died. But I am sure that even if he were alive, he would
have supported my decision. My mother supported me to the
fullest. She only asked for one thing, that I had to graduate
with a second class upper and I did.
How about your neighbours and extended family, didn’t they
see you as being unserious?
We were brought up never to care about what the society
thinks. Just do what is right according to your profession,
training and religion. Although people raised eyebrow, they
respected the fact that I was in the university regardless of
what I was studying. It was not easy getting into the
university back then and every course being studied had the
same requirements. As a matter of fact, students from the
University of Ibadan were respected.
Was there any time you felt like quitting?
No, I never felt like quitting but there were frustrating
moments. There were times when you would spend all your
energy and resources to do a play and only ten people would
show up to watch it. Such things could be very frustrating.
That is why I say that if you do not have the passion, you
cannot survive in this business; you will run away. I cannot
run away from the business because I really enjoy it. Money is
not the determining factor for me even though it is important
because I have to live and feed my family. So far, so good; I
have never thought about quitting.
Why are you more involved in stage productions and soap
operas as opposed to full length feature movies?
I was trained on the stage and when we started out, we only
had the stage, television and sometimes radio to showcase
our talents. There is this attachment I have to the stage; it is
natural and more fulfilling for me. I also do videos and full
length films but circumstances make you take certain
decisions. I have stayed away from home videos because I
believe most of the actors do not have enough training. When
I say such things, people do not understand what I am saying
and they tag me as an ‘I too know.’
What exactly are the circumstances that made you stay
away?
I believe strongly in training. I do not believe I can become a
doctor without training; same way I do not believe I can
become a teacher without knowing certain things about
teaching people. So it is important to be properly trained in
anything that you find yourself doing. Most of the actors in
Nollywood that started out like myself were just people who
had the interest and we came together to do some good jobs.
That was where it stopped because there was no where else
to explore. Most of them were stagnant and limited because
they did not have any training. I advised a few to go for
training but they turned a deaf ear at me. It is a big business
and how many people do I want to quarrel with or always
correct on stage? This is something I studied and learnt and I
would like to share but people would always put you down.
So I decided to stay with the soap operas and stage
production. The few films that I could tolerate, I accept the
script.
Does this stance pay you financially?
I have been surviving so far. I really don’t know how much
home video fetches them but if you make a stand in life, you
must be ready to make sacrifices for those decisions. You
may not know how well stage plays pay but as regularly as
they come, they take care of my bills. It is not like I would not
add whatever is made from the home video to what I am
earning, but it is a sacrifice I am willing to make. Stage play
is not dying, Terra Culture has a stage play that runs every
week and people go there to watch the plays. We have
sponsors and patrons of theatre; so stage play cannot die.
Muson Centre also organises a lot of stage plays. The plays
may not be on the increase, but it is definitely not decreasing.
Are you saying that there is no professionalism with the new
crop of artistes in the industry?
That is a difficult question to answer because training in arts
does not necessarily involve going to a formal school setting.
It could be in form of apprenticeship. There should be some
kind of training. I do not believe you can become a
professional without any kind of training.
Are you scared of competition from the new generation of
actors?
I can never be scared of anybody local or foreign in my
profession. God forbid that I am scared. Most of the newer
generation of actors are very shallow. They do not know what
characterisation is. And if you do not know what that is, then
you are not an actor as far as I am concerned. How can I be
scared of such people?
Is that why you once said all they sell is beauty and
mediocrity?
That is true. A handsome face does not necessarily make you
a good actor; neither does a pretty face and good body make
you a good actress. But that is what people want to see. If
people like to see such things, then what good is it to act
properly? As a matter of fact, somebody called Henry Locane
was a very ugly man but one of the best actors in the French
history during the 14th or 15th century. Acting has nothing to
do with beauty.
How have you managed to remain scandal free even though
you are married to an actress?
Must every actor and actress have scandals? Scandals are
things you do not need and some people create scandals to
make themselves very popular or notorious. I am a very
humble person who comes from a humble background. I do
not do things above my head and I do not break laws. I don’t
engage in such things.
How have you and your wife been able to raise your children
amidst your busy schedules?
It has never been a problem. It has to do with understanding
and you need to marry your friend. Both of us do not take
jobs that would take us out of town at the same time. At any
point in time, one person is always at home.
How have you been able to sustain your marriage?
Sincerity of purpose; you do not marry because of glamour.
You do not marry because you want the world to see that you
are married to a celebrity or a good looking person. You must
lay the right foundation for marriage and you have to be very
sure of what you are doing. You have to believe in the
institution called marriage. Marry your friend so that when
love is failing, friendship carries you on. When there is no
money in the home, togetherness can carry you on. Be truthful
to each other and bring all the virtues to play in your
marriage. For me, it is not a big deal.
Do you keep secrets from your wife?
We share a lot of secrets together but we do not keep secrets
from each other.
How did you meet your wife?
We met at auditions, so we talked. I am a very playful person
and I kissed her one day. I just said hello to her and she
turned; immediately I kissed her and I walked away before she
realised what happened. I did not know what she was going
to do, whether she would slap me or not but I just left the
place. I did not run away but I left because I wanted to leave
an impression in her. After that, we met on the set of the
movie called, Izozo, and that was where our relationship
started.
What did you see in her that made you propose to her?
I saw a friend. I saw somebody that is reliable and somebody
that I can trust.
Did you watch Glamour Girls?
Yes I did.
Did you see the movie before you met your wife or after you
met her?
I think I saw the movie before we met.
After seeing the movie, did it influence your decision to date
her?
No, it did not.
How do you feel when another man is kissing your wife in a
movie?
I don’t have any feelings.
Do you feel jealous?
I don’t feel anything. I don’t feel jealous. It is a play and
professionally, we simulate things. There are camera
movements to make things real. Even if it is real, so what?
Would the man take her away from me after acting? I don’t
feel anything.
How have you been able to cope with the ladies?
I have never been a ladies’ man. When I am with other actors,
girls flock around them but they do not come to me. I had to
ask a lady why women don’t come my way and she told me
that it is because my face looks too hard. I am a very playful
person. Although I think they are right that my face looks hard
because sometimes I frown and I don’t know why I do so. I
have never been a ladies’ man.

even in my 60s, Women still chase me –Kollington


Veteran fuji musician, Ayinla Kollington
Veteran fuji musician, Ayinla Kollington, shares his life
experiences in this interview with ‘Nonye Ben-Nwankwo and
Ademola Olonilua
Fuji music is one of the biggest genre of music in Nigeria, as
one of its pioneers, did you ever imagine it would become
this big?
I never imagined that it would become this big at all. We just
saw it as a child’s play when we started. It was like a hobby.
But now everybody is either singing or dancing to fuji music.
Although we never thought it would become this widely
accepted, I am glad about what it has become today.
Why did you choose to sing fuji when there were other music
genres you could have easily chosen from?
It was because fuji music was derived from Islamic religion.
When I was growing up, during the Ramadan festival,
whenever we wanted to wake people up early in the morning
to eat and proceed to the mosque for prayers, we normally
sang. Then, we called it ‘Were.’ But when you attained a
certain age, you couldn’t sing ‘Were’ again. By then, it
became fuji. We had the likes of Saka Layigbade, Abinuwaye,
singing fuji then but they all lived in Lagos Island. Sikiru
Ayinde Barrister was in Mushin while I was based on the
Mainland. ‘Were’ metamorphosed into fuji.
Did your parents permit you to do music?
Initially, they did not but they later supported me. They
frowned at it because they believed that only wayward
children were going into music. It can be likened to the
football profession. At first, nobody wanted their children to be
footballers but now even parents buy football for their children
and some go as far as taking their children to a football
academy. Prior to now, people playing football were viewed
with disdain but after seeing the success of the likes of Jay-
Jay Okocha and Kanu Nwankwo, everybody wants their
children to be like them. That was how it was for us. I never
knew music could become this big but it has taken me all over
the world. I travel a lot because I am in demand and people
actually want to see us.
Why did you decide to become a soldier?
All my friends in the neighbourhood and some others that sang
with me joined the army. I learnt they were at Abeokuta so I
decided to go and visit them. By the time I got there, they
were all wearing blue shorts and white vests, I saw them on
the parade ground marching in an orderly manner and I was
very fascinated. I wanted to join immediately but I was scared
because I did not meet the basic requirements. My age and
height had disqualified me. I was very small. There was a
time retired General Olu Bajowa saw me in his house where I
was stationed as his security guard. When he saw me, he
called me and immediately I saluted him and presented my
arms to him. He was marvelled and he said that I was so
smart. He asked me my age and when I told him, he asked me
who recruited me into the Nigerian Army. I replied him and the
next thing he did was to tell one of his orderlies to collect my
particulars and hand them over to the various kitchens in the
barracks. He left an order that I should always be served
double portion of food because I looked very small. My
colleagues really made jest of me because of that and to be
honest, I could not finish the double ration I was always given.
Don’t you think you would have achieved more in life if you
had remained a soldier?
I doubt it. I did not have the necessary qualifications to rise
above certain ranks. If I had remained in the army, I probably
would have continued to be a gate man. That is why I am
thankful to God that I made the decision to leave.

Veteran fuji musician, Ayinla Kollington
Did you add ‘general’ to your stage name because you were a
soldier?
No, it is not. In 1990, when I did the record, ‘Ijo Yoyo,’ I was
the best fuji artiste of the year. They normally gave us the
award at the National Theatre, Lagos. General Babangida was
meant to be there but he was represented by the late General
Sani Abacha. When I was given the award, I dedicated it to
Babangida and since he was not present, I took the award to
the late Sani Abacha. When I gave him the award, he told me
that he learnt I was a soldier and I affirmed that. He asked
what rank I was before I was discharged and I told him.
Abacha then told me that I was a pride to the Nigerian Army
and with immediate effect, I should be ranked as a General in
music. Immediately he made the pronouncement, the hall
erupted with a thunderous clap.
Did you later get close to him when he became the Head of
State?
We saw once but since he locked Abiola in jail, I had to keep
my distance. I knew Abiola and I also knew Abacha, so I had
to be neutral.
At your age, you still dance very well. Where do you get the
energy from?
The energy is innate, I was born with it. I still have the energy
and if you see me perform, you would not believe that I am
the one. Whenever I perform in the US, people always marvel.
The energy is still there.
How did you meet the late Sikiru Ayinde Barrister?
We met in 1964. We met through one of my band members,
Social Olajide. He was the one that brought Sikiru to my
house one evening. Before then, I had been hearing about
Sikiru and he had also been hearing my name around town
but I was based in Ebutte-Meta while he was living in Mushin.
When Olajide brought Sikiru to my house for the first time and
introduced him to me, we immediately hugged each other and
that was how our friendship began. We became so close that
when I joined the military, he always came to visit me. I
eventually lured him into the Army as well. Whenever he came
back from the war front, he would always come and stay in
my house. He was the one that suggested that we should quit
the Army and make music a full time career. At first, I was
scared because I thought we were too old. I also expressed
scepticism because there was no soldier that was into music
back then. I felt if we got caught, we would be severely
punished but he went ahead to begin practice in Mushin.
Whenever he came back, he normally advised me to resume
practice but I always told him I was afraid because our
barracks was one of the most disciplined barracks in the
country. Sikiru advised that I should write a letter to the
orderly room maybe they would permit me to go out of the
barracks for music practice and when I tried it, my request
was granted.
Till Barrister died, a lot of people believed both of you were
enemies…
We were not enemies. We quarrelled like any friend would do
and after each quarrel, we always settled it. We were so close
that whenever my child or his was getting married, we always
wore the same attire. The issue of fighting among singers did
not start with us. Our elders in the industry also had issues
with one another that led to quarrelling at a point in time.
Some of them settled their rift before they died while others
went to the grave with it. There was a time King Sunny Ade
and Ebenezer Obey also had their rift. It is part of music. In
fact, I hear that the young lads singing hip-hop also quarrel
among themselves; so it is inevitable. Sometimes we also do
it to sell our albums.
Many people believed that you were able to sell millions of
copies of your album, Ijo yoyo, because you used mystical or
diabolical powers …
That is where some people make the mistakes of their lives.
When I released the album, Ijo yoyo, I was terribly sick. I did
not enjoy the time at all, I was always on my sick bed. People
were looking for me to engage me to perform for them but I
could not. The song was given to me by God, I did not do
anything extra.
But till date, people believe you and the late Barrister
achieved such fame and success through metaphysical
powers…
No. We did nothing of such. If someone should do such a
thing, you would know because his downfall would be glaring
for the world to see. It is God that made me popular.
There were rumours last year that you were very sick and had
to sell off some of your houses to look after your health, how
true is that?
I don’t know what to say about it. People exaggerate a lot.
What kind of sickness would make me sell my houses? I don’t
have a terminal illness. People fall ill all the time and are
treated. I have never fallen ill to the extent that I would have
to sell off all my property. I go for medical check-up a lot but
if any journalist sees you in the hospital, even if it is because
you went to see a friend, they would say you are in a coma.
Do I look sick to you? I am jumping and marching in front of
you now, can a very sick man do that? I do exercise every
morning. The training I got as a soldier is still there. Once a
soldier, always a soldier.
In the course of your career, did you pick up any vice?
I attempted drinking alcohol about 25 years ago but I realised
it did not go down well with my body system, so I stopped. I
don’t smoke cigarette neither do I take Indian hemp.
But men are known to indulge in either wine or women, which
is yours?
I like women. No man can say he does not like women, not to
talk of a musician.
We learnt that women used to ‘chase’ you when you were at
the peak of your career…
Up until now, women still chase me. I am a man.
At your age, do you still consider their advances?
Of course, I indulge them when they are making such
advances at me and if they give me a chance, I would do
times two of what they are asking for.
Why did you not pay Salawa Abeni a visit when she was
seriously ill?
I later went to visit her. The reason why I did not go initially
was because I didn’t think it was right for me to read such
news about her on the pages of the newspapers first. My
children are with her and she was supposed to send one of
them to me to inform me that she was ill. I don’t go to places
that I am not invited. I later went to see her anyway.
Is there any possibility of both of you living under the same
roof as husband and wife?
We are husband and wife. She does not have a child for
anybody else other than myself. I am her bona fide owner and
we are together till death do us part. It does not matter if we
live under the same roof or not, she is still my wife.
We learnt that you played ‘baba ijebu’ lotto and won millions
of money, how true is it?
It is an absolute lie. I swear to God I don’t even know what
the paper they use to play ‘Baba Ijebu’ looks like. I don’t
gamble. I am not against those that play it but I have never
indulged in such. People have been peddling that rumour for
over five years. Whenever I hear such, I just laugh. I don’t
even know who Baba Ijebu is and I doubt he knows me.
With all the rumours and controversies that have trailed you,
has there been anytime you regretted being a public figure?
I have never regretted it because I know that is how it
happens all over the world. It is only that I am not free to
move around like normal people. Before you know it, a crowd
would have gathered just to see me.
We learnt that there is a rift between you and K1?
It is not true. There is no rift between us. K1 has been my son
in music for many years before the death of his master,
Barrister. People carry rumours that he says certain things
about me but if such is the matter, I will handle it with
maturity. There is no rift between us. When he was giving
away his daughter in marriage, I went. He also invited me to
his K1 Unusual Concert and I was there. I am the father of all
fuji musicians in Nigeria. Anywhere they play fuji music in the
whole world as the last man standing among my
contemporaries, I would be recognised. I am their father.
You sang about a lady, Taiyelolu, how is she?
I loved her then when I sang about her. I loved her then but
not anymore. She misbehaved, so I left her. She has been in
London with my children for over 20 years. We are no more
together.
Do we see you falling in love again?
That is a tough question. Although it is tough, I am still a
man; therefore I am capable of still falling in love.
Are you planning any collaboration with the new generation of
artistes?
Yes, we are considering doing a collaboration with Olamide. I
am also working on my forthcoming album.

Shy men make better lovers –Study


It is no gainsaying that most women prefer dating men who
appear confident and outspoken, not necessarily because such
men are better lovers, but partly because they exhibit an aura
of protection, safety and reliability for their spouses.
Notably, shy men may not be every woman’s preference
maybe because they appear calm and non-aggressive in
situations that demand absolute exhibition of their manliness,
but it now appears that women who prefer dating the macho
men to shy men may be missing out on the best possible
mate or the company of a better lover. This is because studies
have shown that men who are shy are better lovers.
No doubt, the natural attraction of females to ‘confident’ men
has compelled some men to ‘come out of their shell’ in order
to impress women, more so because they sometimes have to
prove their masculinity with some bold and dramatic displays.
However, if the findings of these studies are anything to go by,
women who are in relationships with shy men should count
themselves lucky for being in the company of better mates.
Some biologists at the Plymouth University, United Kingdom,
found that men who shy the most do have the most to offer
their potential lover.
One of the researchers, Prof. Mark Briffa, who is a marine ­
animal behaviour scientist in the university, likened men to
hermit crabs, pointing out that the most timid or shy crabs
tend to have more high quality sperm, making them a better
option for females.
The findings of the study, published in Daily Mail, revealed
that crabs that spend more time in their shells have invariably
invested more time and resources in becoming reproductively
fit, saying their finding was in contrast with the idea that the
most productive individuals should be the boldest. Thus,
according to the study, shy men who may not readily talk
spend more time on things that could make them better,
which invariably would make them better lovers.
In some other reports to buttress the point that there are
several benefits in dating a shy guy, a post on
allwomenstalk.com showed that the main challenge shy men
have is that their spouses may need to work harder to get
some information out of them because they usually do not
readily share information about themselves. Also people tend
to have a wrong perception of who they really are. This is
unlike the ‘confident’ guy who would want to talk about his
past, present and future. The report added that the men who
are ‘confident’ tend to be more possessive and talk a lot
about themselves. It added that such men could put off some
possible lovers with their actions for being too forward and
dominating conversations.
According to the post, shy guys are also more sincere than
the outspoken guys because they think deeply about their
words beforehand and are more careful in their expression
than those who are not and are usually ready to talk as soon
as situations present themselves. Also, shy men were found to
be less intimidating than their ‘confident partners’, who would
want everyone around to feel that they are more than they
truly are. It added that shy guys who may rarely talk would
only talk when convinced and definite about what to say and
not to impress, noting that the ‘confident’ men would want to
introduce or advertise themselves at all times, which may not
be the true picture of who they truly are.
“They are considerate and are more likely to consider the
impact of their words and actions on their partner, hence,
making them a preferred spouse. Also, they are less likely to
cheat, not only because women tend not to consider them for
relationship but also because they focus their attention on
more productive things rather than chasing women,” it added.
For women who love rapt attention and a listening man to talk
to, no one does it better than shy men because they usually
don’t and are not always eager to dominate conversations.
Rather, they listen well and only talk when they feel like or
when they have something better or interesting to say. This,
accordingly, implies that shy men respect the feelings and
opinions of others. According to the post, shy men have been
found to make valuable contributions in a group discussion
because they spend more time meditating, and are not in a
hurry to speak. Beyond these, it was also revealed that shy
guys are more receptive, all making them a better lover.
In summarising the benefits of dating a shy man, another
report on amerikanki.com, said, “It’s believed that girls tend
to talk much more than guys, but every now and then, even
women need a person that can just keep silent and listen to
them. They want to talk more and be listened to and any man
who can afford them such would readily score some point.
“A shy man will never act artificially and his words always
correspond to his thoughts and women can be sure that the
shy guy means exactly what he says. Indeed, it’s a good
reason to date a shy guy.
“Shy guys aren’t so talkative and probably most ladies will
have to make great efforts to get along with them, just that if
such men choose to talk, they are sincere and their words are
meaningful and they don’t bother their partner with annoying
questions. Even if they have to reject people or their opinion,
they do it in a polite manner.

“These imply that shy guys shouldn’t be ignored at all
because dating a shy guy is all about advantages and these
are only a few of them. If you want an attentive, careful
person, dating a shy guy is definitely a right idea, even if they
are not the readily combat-ready men.”
Thus, the studies and posts pointed out that a man with such
traits as highlighted and discussed above tends to be a better
lover.
Commenting on the study, a professor of psychology, Toba
Elegbeleye, said shy guys could be categorised as introverts,
and that they are people who like to be quiet, studious and
alone, not for the fear of publicity but for them to exhibit their
internal qualities.
He pointed out that such people have fantastic inner qualities
and they usually believe that they are the only ones that
understand their personality better.
He said, “They are very hardworking and intelligent people
because they are able to explore all their internal qualities. So,
it may not be wrong if somebody concludes that they are
better lovers because they have the patience to live with and
correct their partners in love if there is need.
“Also, they can see what an ordinary extroverted person won’t
see because they pay attention to details, they know more
than they speak out, so, these may make them a good lover.
They may be able to accommodate all the inconsistencies that
come from their partner.
“They usually have internal resilience that makes them
consider issues several times before they take action, and
most of such actions cannot be faulted. These qualities may
make them better lovers.”

What will you do if politicians offer you money for votes?


Respondents
In the build-up to the 2015 elections, there have been various
reports of politicians going about inducing voters with money
and gifts to gain votes. Saturday PUNCH went out to ask
some Nigerians what they would do if any candidate
approached them with money in order to gain their votes
The money would be for my upkeep
Mrs. Olayinka Bakare, unemployed
I have a PVC but I am not ready to go out and vote on
election day. The only thing that would make me leave my
house on election day is if I am promised a job and if there is
assurance that it is not just another promise that would go
unfulfilled. I have been jobless since last year and things have
really been hard for me. I started a business last year when I
lost my job. I was selling meat but the business also folded
up later. Now, I don’t even know what to do. Voting is the last
thing on my mind. So, if anybody gives me money to vote for
him, that money would be for my upkeep, not voting.
I will never collect money to vote
Mrs. Bolaji Tiamiyu, Trader
No matter what anybody pays me, I would not change my
mind about who I would vote for. I have realised that
politicians are liars. I am not ready to sell my vote. How can I
sell my vote when I know that they would end up deceiving
me? I have been told that our votes are powerful and I am
ready to use it to fight for my right. I will go out and vote but
would never collect anybody’s money to change my mind.
It’s an insult to offer me money
Idris Abu, anti-corruption crusader
I would not vote on sentiment and neither would I vote based
on pecuniary benefit. I have been carrying my PVC on me
since I got it because I know how important it is. I would not
change my mind about my candidate for any reason. I am not
one of those people who vote without genuine reasons. I have
weighed my options and made a choice about who to vote for
based on those reasons. It will even be an insult for anybody
to offer me money for me to change my mind on who to vote
for.
I can’t sell my children’s future
Mrs. Kehinde Adejare, plantain seller
I would not collect money to vote for someone, ever. This
election is a destiny vote. I have to ensure that I don’t sell my
children’s destiny. I cannot collect peanut just to vote for
someone and my children begin to suffer in the future. I would
only be destroying their future and I cannot do that. If we all
sell our votes, bad people would continue to stay in power and
we would continue to be poor. I sell food by the roadside. I
want my life to improve and I cannot contribute to my own
poverty.
Nobody can bribe me
Abimbola Arike, trader
I am ready to vote and would never sell my vote. I am not
hungry to the extent of collecting money so that I can change
my mind. Nothing will make me change my mind about who to
vote for. I am not contented with where I am but I cannot
blame politicians because they do their best. It is my right to
vote for whoever I like. This is why nobody would bribe me
into voting for them.
I’ll not collect it
Alex O, musician
I think the most important thing is whether I believe in the
policies the candidate is selling. If the person’s policies make
sense to me, that is the person I would vote for. Some people
might take the money and still vote for whoever they want to
vote for because nobody would be there when you are voting.
It boils down to who you think can give you what you are
looking for. I would not collect the money because I would
vote based on who I believe would make the country a better
place.
My vote not for sale
Wale Adebayo, actor
Basically my vote is meant to be mine and it is not for sale. I
am going to vote based on what I believe in and it does not
matter if he becomes the wrong person at the end of the day.
I would vote for a person I believe can give me what I think I
want. My political views have to be in alignment with the
person’s own. Whether I collect money from him does not
matter as long as I vote based on my ideals and principles.
The person would practically be wasting his money, especially
if I was not even planning to vote for him to begin with. I
thought that we should have gone past using money to induce
people to get votes. I will reject the money.
I have always rejected such
Foluke Daramola, actress
I have been offered money several times which I rejected but I
will not mention names. I don’t do such because I am voting
for my conscience, my future, and I am voting for change.
That is what I am voting for and not because of money. At the
end of the day, the money will finish. We need a restructuring
in our system, our industry and in Nigeria as a whole for the
future of our children. I will never compromise my stand or
integrity for money.
I will reject it
Fidelis Duker, filmmaker
Personally my vote is not for money. I think we have got to a
point in Nigeria where we would decide a leader without being
induced by anything. I will not accept money from anybody to
vote; I will rather reject it. I want to vote based on my
conscience. We have got to a point where the polity is heated
up and it is good. It is now obvious to politicians that you
cannot take Nigerians for granted. That is the beauty of this
election. Whoever wins would know that for the next four
years, he has to work hard, if not he would be kicked out by
the people. People would vote based on their conscience and
look beyond propaganda and lies. People now know better and
the best man among them would win. Definitely, I will not
subscribe to collecting money.
It is tempting but I won’t take it
Evaezi, actress
If it happens that he is the person that I want to vote for, then
it is okay but if it is not the person that I want to vote for,
then too bad for the person. I would vote based on my
principles and ideologies. I would vote based on who I feel
would make the country a better place. As for the money, I
would not want to be a hypocrite and say I will not collect the
money. It is quite tempting. Even if I collect the money, he
would not know that I did not vote for him. Although
collecting the money seems very tempting, I doubt I would
take it.
I will collect the money but won’t vote for them
Seyi Coker, Businessman
I will collect the money but I won’t vote for the person if he’s
not my candidate. If I let the money influence who I vote for, it
will be like buying my entire life for filth; it’s nonsense. It’s
like selling my right and I can’t sell my right to anyone. My
conscience will not be at peace if I go ahead and vote for the
person if I’m not convinced that he will perform well in the
position.
If the amount is not insulting, I will collect
Uwem Umoh, Businessman
I will collect the money, provided it is not derogatory or
insulting. By that I mean if the money is not just a small
amount of money. Then, I would still definitely and
courageously and convincingly vote my choice of candidate. It
doesn’t matter that I collected money or not.
If I don’t collect it, I will lose
Mrs. Florence Thomas, Trader
In Nigeria of today, if anybody gives me money, I will accept it
but it doesn’t mean I will vote for him. If I don’t collect the
money, then I will be the one who will lose. After all, no one
will know who I vote for since no one will be at the polling
booth with me when I cast my vote. No candidate has brought
anything to my area in Shomolu, Lagos this year but I heard
some candidates have been distributing umbrellas around
here. During past elections, they shared everything here- rice,
money and so on. I collected everything and still voted for the
candidate of my choice.
I have my job
Abbas Samuel, Businessman
No, I won’t accept any money from any candidate who wants
me to vote for him or her. What if I collect the money and the
candidate ends up to be a terrible public servant. We need
good leaders who will take us to the promised land. No
amount of money will sway me and make me vote against my
conscience. So I won’t collect money from anyone since I
have a job. If I didn’t have a job, it would be another matter.
Any money I collect will only last me for a day or so, so why
sell my vote?
It’s corruption
Chinwe Ndu, office assistant
I can’t accept money from any candidate; it’s corruption. No,
it is very wrong. It’s like selling my right, so I won’t do it.
What we need in this country are people who will do what the
people want when they get into offices. I will vote for the
candidates that I believe will do the things the masses want,
not people who will go there to steal our money.
No matter the amount, I won’t collect
Gozie Irobie, singer
My vote is supposed to speak for me. There is no way I would
collect anybody’s money. Collecting money is not even the
issue. We just have to vote during this election. I am not
going to collect any money; no matter the amount I am paid. I
just have to perform my civic responsibilities and that is it.
I will take it because it is our money
Bethel Okorie, Musician
Everybody needs money, so if any candidate offers me money
to vote for him, I will collect it and vote for the candidate of
my choice. Before I vote, I look at the antecedents, profiles
and promises of the candidates before deciding on who to
vote for. No one can buy my conscience; the future of my
family, my children, generations yet unborn and my own are at
stake. I’ve seen politicians promise heaven on earth and then
do nothing. Many of them are there for business; they offer
people money because of what they know they will get there.
Some of them are being sponsored by godfathers who are
looking at getting their money back once their candidates win.
So if I collect the money, I’m actually collecting our money
that they have looted.
Anyone that does that disqualifies himself
Gbenga Bada, Senior Associate, Pulse.ng
Candidates who offer electorate cash in exchange for votes
have firstly displayed an act of malpractice and corruption. A
credible and confident candidate would lure me to the polls to
vote for him or her by giving me convincing plans on how to
improve the state of the nation and plans for a better future.
Thus, I would reject the cash but vote the candidate I deem fit
to lead me and provide a better future.
How can I reject money?
Seun Oloketuyi, CEO, Best of Nollywood
I would definitely collect the money. Lai Lai! How can I reject
the money? Is it not our money? But that said, I would still
vote who my conscience advises me to vote, I would still vote
for the credible person.
I will reject it
Blessing Desmond, businesswoman
I will certainly not accept such money. No matter the reason, I
cannot do that. Selling my votes is just the same as selling
my future and those of my children. I would reject the money
and vote for the right person.
I will collect it but I won’t change my mind
David Unah, businessman
Nobody can induce me with money to vote for them. I would
vote for whoever my conscience tells me to vote for and that I
know that has good plans for us as a country. But if the
person pressures me into collecting the money, I will pocket it
and still vote for the candidate of my choice; after all he or
she won’t be there at the point of casting the ballot.
I will never collect it
Aniekan Reuben, businessman
Nobody can use money to change my mind. I would vote for
the candidate and party I support, no matter how huge the
money anybody is trying to offer me. I will never collect it. I
am from Akwa Ibom State and I strongly believe in the party I
support and all the candidates. So, as far as I am concerned,
nobody can use money to change my mind.

Embarrassment in Tunis (II)


I didn’t intend to write a follow up to last week’s column but
subsequent events have dictated I do so.
It’s no longer news that Dolphins were walked over by
Tunisia’s Club Africain, it’s the prevailing circumstances
surrounding the walk over that makes the story still relevant.
The question to be asked here, is what brought about the
walkover in the first place? Has the immediate root cause of it
been identified? If so, have the pertinent issues been
resolved?
By sheer coincidence, I’d dedicated my last few columns to
improving the welfare of the GLO Premier League players. I
never envisaged that players’ welfare (or a lack of) would
actually cost a team their continental spot, without kicking a
ball. Which in this day and age is beyond shameful. For the
record and this might sound harsh to Dolphins fans, I honestly
believe that the walkover was a blessing in disguise. Club
Africain, based on Dolphins’ performances in pre season (not
a particularly accurate indication of a club’s form to be fair
but a useful indicator) and their start to the league season,
would have beaten them home and away.
This whole situation was a disaster waiting to happen. From
the players refusing to board the team bus in Port Harcourt,
thereby missing their Thursday night flight. To Dolphins
informing the Nigerian Football Federation that they missed
their flight, along with a request that the match be shifted by
24 hours. Apparently the NFF complied with the request and
informed CAF that Dolphins would be arriving in Tunis late
without requesting a shift in the kick-off for the game. As I
have said earlier, even if the match had been shifted by a
week, I doubt if Dolphins would have got a positive result due
to their poor recent run of form.
The main reason I’m writing this addendum to my last column
was a report during the week that the players apologised to
their club management for their role in the walkover. I thought
to myself, this is manifestly unfair, aren’t these chaps the
aggrieved party? Since when did the victim start appealing to
the aggressor? From what I gathered, the players initial grouse
was on the amount of their travel allowance or estacode,
which was supposed to be a previously agreed amount of $
1,000. This amount was now slashed to $500, much to the
players chagrin. One must also take into consideration the
players are still being owed at least five months’ salary. How
on earth does anyone expect them to perform on the pitch?
Where lies the motivation, when the basic covenant between
employer and employee is not being met? It’s an abnormal
state of affairs which can only serve to further tarnish the
image of the club and everybody associated with it. As an
employer of labour, you must pay an employee for services
rendered. This should serve as a lesson to all other clubs in
the domestic league, there’s a price to play for taking the
most important members of your organisation for granted.
Without the playing staff, there is no football.
It’s just a pity that it took Dolphins being walked over to
understand that.
The future is rosy for the Flying Eagles
I’m not a big fan of age-grade football. The basic essence of
age-grade football competition is developmental. To see the
cadet footballer grow into a full-fledged international. Some
do, like Nduka Ugbade, assistant coach of the Flying Eagles,
who as captain of the victorious China ’85 FIFA Under 17
World Cup Golden Eagles – and represented Nigeria at every
level of football. Unfortunately, age-grade tournaments have
been abused. After our wonderful successes in 1985 and 1993,
football administrators in the country, having stumbled upon a
sure method of success, started to distort the process by
fielding men as boys. We have paid for that ever since. You
can’t cheat nature. If 25 years old men parade themselves as
17 years old boys, they may very well win the tournament but
they end up truncating their own progress.
The new African Under-20 champions Flying Eagles seem to
be ploughing a different furrow. The bulk of this team was
promoted from the reigning Under-17 World champions, the
Golden Eaglets. Based on how the Flying Eagles progress at
the Under-20 World Cup in New Zealand in June, some of
these lads are ready to step up to the senior national team.
We have all seen the exploits of Tottenham’s 21-year-old
Harry Kane in the English Premier League, which earned him
his first cap. There are many Harry Kanes in Nigeria. He
represented England at U19 and U21. Bernard Bulbwa’s
winning goal against Senegal in the Under-20 Africa Youth
Championship final in Dakar on Sunday is the best I have seen
in 2015. There’s a saying in football, if you’re good enough,
you’re old enough.
It’s time to give youth a chance.

Kevin Hart: Comedian talks about Texas disgrace


Actor and comedian, Kevin Hart, is a big University of Texas
athletics fan, but after a recent visit to the UT campus, he’s
probably going to keep his support on the sidelines.
Hart appeared on Jimmy Kimmel Live at South By Southwest
in Austin this week, and told a hilarious story about working
out with the Texas football team.
Initially, Hart thought he was going to be alone in the weight
room, but quickly realised he was going to go through the
same type of training the football team endures in the spring.
It didn’t end well.
Hart said after the workout he threw up on a wall outside the
weight room and then ran before anyone could pin the mess
on him.
The real Hart
Hart was born on July 6, 1979, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
He was raised by his mother, Nancy Hart, who took on the
role of single parent as a result of her husband’s chronic
battles with cocaine and the law. His father, Henry Robert
Witherspoon, a cocaine addict, was in and out of jail
throughout most of his childhood. Kevin used his natural
ability to make people laugh as a coping mechanism to deal
with his family struggles and to stay out of trouble. He has
one elder brother, Robert.
As a coping mechanism, the young Hart found humour to fight
back the pain of his childhood. Henry has since cleaned up his
life, and father and son have reconnected.
The experience of those tough years would later provide a
source for much of Hart’s comedy. “The jokes,” he has said of
his stand-up, “come from a real experience.”
Kevin has mentioned in his stand-up act that he had a
difficult relationship with his father. His father’s addiction to
cocaine for many years caused great strain on their
relationship. He speaks lovingly of his mother, portraying her
as a loving, yet intimidating woman, but unfortunately, she
died of cancer in 2007.
As a boy, Hart was obsessed with stand-up comedy and
comedians in general.
He attended George Washington High School in Philadelphia
before moving to New York City to pursue his career in
comedy. Kevin took classes at community college for two
years and after graduating, he focused on having a career in
comedy. But before he made it as a full time comedian, Kevin
took series of odd jobs, including as a shoe salesman.
Hart has since featured in about 20 TV shows, and over 30
movies.
He was in ‘Scary Movie 3’, ‘The 40-Year-Old-Virgin’, ‘Scary
Movie 4’, ‘Fool’s Gold’, ‘Meet Dave’, ‘Little Fockers’, and ‘The
Five-Year Engagement’. He’s also won a string of awards.
You might be surprised to know that this massive star is only
5ft 2inches tall. He uses his height to his advantage though
as he often jokes about his height in his comedy shows.
Kevin Hart is showing some pretty impressive signs of going
from strength to strength, with the ‘Real Husbands of
Hollywood’ quite literally making him one of the highest paid
people in the industry. There was also a movie he starred in
alongside Ice Cube called ‘Ride Along’ that bagged over $75m
(about N14bn).
After that, his net worth is reported to be about $50m
(N9.5bn).
Of course, part of what makes up his money is from the sales
of his hilarious comedy DVD’s, with ‘Seriously Funny’ being
one of the fastest selling DVD in recent years. Add to this, ‘Let
Me Explain’ roped in a whopping $27m (N51bn) gross (and he
was reported to have made $4m from it).
Thanks to high-grossing gigs and multi-platinum sales of his
DVD, ‘Laugh at My Pain’, which grossed over $8m since its
release, Hart is climbing Forbes’ list as well. The comedian is
also gaining attention in Hollywood with a roster of upcoming
films and recent roles in hits like ‘Think Like A Man’ and ‘This
Is The End’.
He’s been endorsing brands like Nike and Ford Motor
Company. He’s also now one of the famous faces of iTunes
and Apple.
Kevin was married to a fellow comedian named Torrei from
2003 to 2010. They had two children together but ultimately
separated. Kevin said that the marriage fell apart because of
irreconcilable differences. During their divorce proceedings,
Torrei reportedly asked the judge to have Hart pay her a
whopping $90,000 (about N17m) a month as child support.
Hart is engaged to model, Eniko Parrish.
On April 14, 2013, Hart was arrested on suspicion of drunk
driving after his black Mercedes nearly collided with a tanker
truck on a Southern California freeway. He failed a field
sobriety test and was booked for misdemeanour DUI. On
August 5, 2013, Hart was sentenced to three years’ probation
after pleading no contest to one count of driving under the
influence of alcohol.
Hart has been spotted driving a black Mercedes-Benz SLS.
The roadster is a luxury 2-seat, front engine, grand tourer
sports car, which comes fitted with a V8, 6.2L, DOHC engine
with 7 speed semi-automatic, dual clutch transmission. The
car can reach highest speed limit of 211.3 mph. Fuel economy
rate of this luxurious roadster is 22 mpg highway and 18 mpg
city. Aluminium metallic exterior body with matte paint finish
creates a stylish appearance. Internally, the compact cabin
offers adequate leg and head space to enjoy comfortable ride.
Climate controllable AC, modern audio system with Bose
speakers, auto-adjustable front as well rear seats, accidental
brake control, and leather upholstery. His other cars include a
Lamborghini, a Ferrari and Mercedes Benz G-wagon.
Hart lives in a posh mansion in Los Angeles, California, with
his family.

Concerns as American police hasten to shoot blacks


Inside a park on a cold afternoon of November 22, 2014, in
Cleveland, Ohio, a 12-year-old boy pulled his toy gun to play
in the breezy weather. He walked playfully along the park
alley, pointing his toy at passersby. A weary park visitor,
scared the child may be carrying a deadly weapon at a public
park, called the police to report that a child was “pulling a gun
in and out of his pants and pointing it at people.” The caller,
after noticing that the gun the child was carrying was a toy,
called back the 911 operator to say that the boy was only
holding a toy but it was too late. The police had dispatched
its patrol men on duty. Few minutes later, the team arrived at
the park where the black child was innocently mesmerising
park goers with his holstered toy gun. Two seconds after the
officers arrived, one of the responding officers, Timothy
Loehmann, pulled his gun, engaged his fingers on the trigger
and fired at the child. The child fell on the ground. His 14-
year-old sister that had accompanied him to the park to play,
rushed towards the fallen brother, but police restrained her.
The men handcuffed the sister. She would watch her brother
struggle to stay alive as police stood beside a dying child,
waiting for the ambulance to arrive. Several minutes later, the
ambulance arrived and rushed him to the hospital emergency
room for treatment. The child, Tamir Rice, a 12-year-old
African-American died the next morning.
Cameroonian immigrant, Charly “Africa” Leundeu Keunang was
convicted in 2000 for bank robbery. Three years into his 15-
year sentence, he was transferred to a psychiatric prison
hospital due to mental health illness and subsequently
released into the streets of Los Angeles. He became a
destitute and homeless, pitching his tent along any busy street
in Los Angeles. On March 1, passersby reported a fight along
the sidewalks of the busy street involving Keunang. Five
officers responded to the call. The officers approached
Keunang and a fight ensued. He was fatally shot during
struggle with the police. The fatal altercation that resulted in
the death of the unarmed homeless black man in the hands of
the Los Angeles police department attracted major protests
from blacks in the vicinity of the incident and also around the
Los Angeles police department yard.
Mariam Carey was a 34-year-old single mother who lived in
Washington D.C. On October 3, 2013, Ms. Carey was driving
along Pennsylvania Avenue when she suddenly realised that
she might be travelling the wrong path. She drove into a white
house road block. Panicked, with her child in the back seat,
she quickly attempted a U-Turn. During the U-Turn, she
allegedly hit a barricade and a secret service in front of the
White House. A chase ensued between her and the secret
service; the police surrounded and cornered her, then shot her
five times. She died on the scene. She was unarmed. Her
daughter was sitting in the back seat. The US Attorney’s office
refused to press charges on the officers and agents.
These cases are part of the more than 1,217 deadly police
shootings from 2010 to 2014 captured in the federal data.
Blacks between the ages of 15 and 19 were killed at a rate of
31.17 per million, while just 1.47 per million white males in
that age range died at the hands of police.
Within the past seven years, a white police officer has targeted
blacks for fatal shooting at the ratio of two blacks per week.
This statistics is contained in the most recent accounts of
justifiable homicide by the Federal Bureau of Investigations.
“On average, there were 96 such incidents among at least 400
police killings each year that were reported to the FBI by local
police.”
The number of police killings of unarmed black Americans
seems to have increased within the past year. Sadly, most of
the shootings absolve police and leave families to mourn the
death of their innocent children caught in what is regarded as
a polarised racial killing of blacks by mostly overzealous,
trigger happy white police officers.
Since last summer’s killing of 18-year-old Michael Brown in
Ferguson, one of the most celebrated cases and unrests in the
United States, several police related deaths have been
reported involving white officers shooting black people.
Another major case was a New Yorker, Eric Gardner who was
choked to death while police were attempting to restrain him.
Officers involved in these killings have either been suspended
or reduced to desk duties or as in the case of Officer Darren
Wilson who shot Brown in Ferguson and The New York police
officer that choked Gardner to death, not indicted.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in its recent
data compilation concluded that black people or persons of
colour are most likely to be killed by cops. The crime news
trends on the television screen, these days with reports of
police shooting mostly black unarmed citizens. The case of
Rumaim Brisbon, an Arizona native provided an insight into
police rush to self defence, a ‘shoot now and ask questions
later’ mentality. Earlier this year, someone reported a drug
deal in the neighbourhood where Brisbon resided. Police
approached his vehicle, screamed at him to raise his hands in
the air as police approached his vehicle. Brisbon got off his
vehicle. He suddenly began running from the scene towards
the street. Police began a chase on foot, pulling weapons and
pointing towards Brisbon. As Brisbon reached his pocket
during the chase to remove the bottle of pills in his pocket and
discard them, police shot him. The officer later explained that
he had fired a shot because he thought Brisbon had a gun.
The gun was a bottle of pills. He died instantly.
Keith Vidal was an 18-year-old schizophrenic living in
Southport, North Carolina. He was in the middle of an attack
episode when neighbours noticed his sudden changed
conditions and called the police. When police arrived his
home, they found Keith engaged in schizophrenic episode,
carrying a screw driver. Two officers that came as first
respondents approached him calmly and tried to calm him
down. A third officer suddenly walked into the scene and
fatally shot the teenager, alleging that, “We don’t have time
for this shit.” He shot the mentally ill teenager to death.
The Department of Justice last month began to call out
corrupt police departments in some United States cities. It
began with a review of the Ferguson Police department where
it found during investigations that the Ferguson Police
department was a rogue outlaw where the cops and
authorities engage in unconstitutional practices and racial
profiling. This Monday, the department in a scathing report of
the Philadelphia Police department, accused the police of
commonly arresting black men in the city without reasonable
cause. The Justice department found that over the past eight
years, once a week, the Philadelphia Police department opened
fire at suspects 390 times. The shootings, D.O.J found,
involved 454 patrol police officers and suspects were always
black. The statistics were a strong insight into the use of
lethal and brutal force on blacks by a major city police
department in the United States Police law enforcement.

Chelsea, Liverpool target Emenike


Emmanuel Emenike
Emmanuel Emenike is planning to dump Turkish club
Fenerbache with his sights set on a move to England in the
summer, it has been learned.
Already, the 27-year-old has been linked with a move to
Premier League clubs Liverpool, Chelsea and Tottenham in the
summer.
According to reports, Chelsea are highly interested in the 2013
Africa Cup of Nations winner and could step up their interest in
the coming months.
Express.co.uk reported that the former Russia-based forward
was believed to have visited London during the week after not
being considered for Nigeria’s international friendlies against
Uganda and South Africa.
The Super Eagles striker is said to be unhappy with the racial
abuse he received from Fenerbahce fans in a recent game
against Besiktas and has decided to move elsewhere.
Emenike demanded to be substituted after coming in for abuse
from his own supporters in the encounter.
“Emenike is not happy with what he is going through with the
Fenerbahce fans. He is preparing his mind to be fit for a
possible summer move,” AfricanFootball.com quoted the
player’s confidant as saying during the week.
“He has lots of options which include teams from Italy, but
England looks like his next destination.”
The South Africa 2013 Africa Cup of Nations Golden Boot
winner, who is in his second spell at the club, has only scored
four goals in 22 league appearances this season for the title
contenders.
He joined the Turkish giants in 2011 but was linked to a
match-fixing scandal, though he was later cleared of any
involvement, joining Spartak before playing a game for the
Istanbul club.
The striker rejoined the club in 2013.
Meanwhile, West Brom striker Brown Ideye has urged the
England FA boss to reconsider his decision to amend the rules
that govern the number of non-EU players in each of the
Premier League teams.
The Nigeria international is of the opinion that the Premier
League must maintain a healthy balance between home-
grown players and foreign stars as the league is the toast of
many players outside the UK.
Speaking at a Kick It Out workshop at Bristnall Hall Academy
in Oldbury, Ideye said, “I feel bad about it because there are a
lot of talented players outside the UK who want to come to
the Premier League to play football
“The Premier League is where people want to play and want
to be so it’s a bit sad that things like this come up.
“But I guess they know what is good and they are doing the
right thing for them.
“I think making the team is what is important and here you
get foreigners and English players mixed together to get good
teams.
“That is good and I think it should be 50-50.”
England FA boss, Greg Dyke wants tighter restrictions to
ensure more English youngsters get their chance in the top
flight.

Keshi must listen to advice – Elaho


Friday Elaho believes that Stephen Keshi would have guided
Nigeria to the 2015 Africa Cup of Nations in Equatorial Guinea
if his former Super Eagles’ teammate had listened to advice.
The ex-Nigeria winger also says Keshi’s clash with the Nigeria
Football Federation – and the attacks from some sections of
the local media after the Eagles failed to qualify for the
tournament could have been avoided if he had not made
“people believe he is stubborn and doesn’t listen to advice”.
Nigeria blew a gilt-edged chance to seal their place at 2015
Equatorial Guinea after they battled to a 2-2 draw against
South Africa in their last group game in Uyo last November.
The NFF’s negotiation with Keshi for a new contract provoked
a storm of criticism and the ire of some Nigerians.
But, after nearly four months of frosty relationship between the
NFF and the former Togo manager over contractual terms, the
national football body announced during the week they had
agreed to give Keshi a new contract.
“The NFF executive committee met on Wednesday and finally
approved the recommendation of the technical committee for
Keshi to continue as the country’s coach,” BBC Sport quoted
Pinnick as saying.
“We believe he deserves to continue and we expect him to
sign this new contract in the coming days.”
Elaho, who welcomed the development, urged Keshi to learn
from his mistakes.
“I think the NFF has done well by giving Keshi the opportunity
to remain in charge of the national team and they deserve
commendation,” the Algiers ’90 Africa Cup of Nations silver
medallist told our correspondent on the telephone on Friday.
“Keshi has done a lot for the country. He won the Africa Cup
of Nations (in South Africa in 2013), which many of the
foreign coaches who managed the Eagles couldn’t win.
“He also did well by reaching the second round of the World
Cup in Brazil last year. It’s unfortunate that he couldn’t help
us qualify for the Africa Cup of Nations in Equatorial Guinea.
“However, Keshi must listen to advice this time around. Many
people saw some of the weaknesses in our team during the
qualifiers and made suggestions.
“He shouldn’t make people believe that he is stubborn and
doesn’t listen to advice.
“I believe we would have defended our title in Equatorial
Guinea if Keshi had listened to advice.
“He probably had his reasons for sticking to some of the
players who cost the country (2015 Equatorial Guinea)
qualification. We must respect his decision.”
The former Denmark-based attacker urged Keshi to inject new
blood into the team, saying some of the players in the side are
past their sell-by date.
He said, “I won’t mention names but many Nigerians know
that we need new strikers and defenders.
“We need players who are ready to fight for the ball. We don’t
need players who are not committed.”
Elaho, who popularly called Professor, said the Eagles should
not be judged by their 1-0 defeat by Uganda in a friendly affair
in Uyo on Wednesday.
“(England-based) Odion Ighalo and (Germany-based) Anthony
Ujah are players who can help the team if given time to gain
confidence.
“There are other good players in the team. we should given
time to develop.”

Friday, 27 March 2015

Photo: Male OAU student spotted wearing mini skirt on campus :-)


This student was spotted at the Fajuyi hall of residence of the
Obafemi Awolowo University Ile - Ife today rocking that skirt.
Some said he wore it in celebration of 'International Women's
Day'. Nice of him to celebrate him is his own unique way...:-)

Ice Prince and his 'special' lady take a photo


The rapper shared this photo with his girlfriend and wrote
"Special"!

Marriage has made me more responsible - Peter Okoye


Singer Peter Okoye says getting married to Lola, his wife and
mother of his two children has made him a more responsible
man. He says marriage has changed his perception as an
individual but has not changed him as a member of P-
Square...
"Marriage has made me to be more responsible, in the sense
that there are certain things which I am limited to do as a
married man. But I still remain who I am because marriage
doesn’t restrict me from doing what I know how to do best on
stage. In a nutshell, I will say marriage has changed me as
Peter Okoye but not as Psquare" he told Vanguard.

Photos: INEC begins distribution of electoral materials


INEC materials being moved to various local government and
wards ahead of tomorrow's elections.


Read the national broadcast by Pres. Jonathan on the 2015 election


President Jonathan this morning addressed the nation in a TV
broadcast where he called on everyone to come out en-mass
to vote for leaders of their choice. What he said below...
Dear Compatriots,
1. As we prepare to go to the polls tomorrow, I have
come before you this morning to express my immense
appreciation for the opportunity you gave me to lead
this great nation of ours in the past four years.
2. I also wish to place on record, once
again, my sincere gratitude for the support you
have given my administration without which the
significant progress we have made in recent
years would not have been possible.
3. In spite of the many challenges we have
had to contend with since 1999, our present
democratic dispensation continues to endure and
grow stronger in keeping with the yearnings and
aspirations of our people.
4. We have all worked very hard to nurture
and strengthen our democratic institutions and
promote the good governance practices which
they were designed to deliver for the better well-
being of our people.
5. I believe I can say without fear of
contradiction that we all clearly cherish the
democracy we now have and will never willingly
give it up for any other form of governance.
6. This much-cherished democracy of ours
is about to be put to the test once again.
7. I urge you all to troop out en-masse to
peacefully perform your civic duty of voting for
leaders of your choice tomorrow.
8. As we do so, let us all - political party
leaders, contestants, party members, party
agents, supporters and ordinary voters alike, be
very conscious of the fact that the eyes of the
entire world are on us.
9. We must therefore comport ourselves in
a manner that will further strengthen our
democracy and consolidate our place in the
comity of truly democratic nations.
10. I made a commitment on assumption of
office to progressively deliver freer, fairer and
more credible elections in our country. In keeping
with that commitment, the Federal Government
has given the Independent National Electoral
Commission (INEC) all necessary support to
ensure that it conducts very successful elections
tomorrow and on April 11.
11. We have all been assured that INEC is
fully ready for the elections. I believe that we can
all trust that they are certainly more ready now
than they may have been before security issues
and other concerns necessitated a re-scheduling
of the dates for the 2015 general elections.
12. As an administration, we welcome the
fact that millions of Nigerians who were yet to
receive their Permanent Voters Cards (PVCs) as
at February 14, and would therefore have been
unfairly disenfranchised if the polls had gone
ahead on that date, have seized the opportunity
of the re-scheduling to collect their cards and
can now exercise their right to vote tomorrow.
13. We are also glad that our gallant Armed
Forces have successfully stemmed the seizure of
Nigerian territories in the North-East by the
terrorist group, Boko Haram.
14. They have recaptured most of the
communities and territories formerly occupied by
the insurgents, making it possible for thousands
of internally-displaced Nigerians to begin
returning to their homes and communities.
15. I heartily commend the very courageous
men and women of our Armed Forces for the
immense sacrifices which they continue to make
in defending the nation and protecting its
citizens.
16. I also thank all Nigerians for keeping
faith with us over the past six weeks.
17. I call on all political parties and
politicians in the country to allow the free,
unfettered will of our people to be expressed
without any hindrance in the coming elections in
keeping with the hallowed principles and tenets
of democratic governance which we all profess.
18. The will of the people freely expressed
through the ballot is the bedrock of all
democracies and ours cannot be an exception.
19. Let us all therefore be prepared, as true
democrats, to graciously accept the outcome of
the elections as the rightful choice of our people
from whom all political powers in our democracy
must emanate.
20. My administration has done its utmost
best in the past four years to deliver on our
promise to positively transform our country.
21. Tomorrow’s election is another very
important milestone as we continue our march
towards the fulfillment of our God-given potential
for greatness.
22. The election offers us another opportunity
to empower leaders of our choice once again, and
to show the world that genuine democracy is
alive and well in our beloved nation.
23. I will like to restate my belief that no
political ambition can justify violence or the
shedding of the blood of our people.
24. I reaffirm once again, my personal
preparedness to ensure fair play during the
elections and to deploy the resources and
institutions of state only in the manner prescribed
by our laws.
25. Let me warn, however, that as President,
Commander-In-Chief of the Armed Forces, I am
under oath to protect the lives of all Nigerians
and the security of our country at all times. I will
never abdicate my responsibilities in that regard.
26. Democracy allows dissent. It encourages
differences and even fervent disagreements. But
elections must never be mistaken for war or an
opportunity to set fellow citizens against each
other and tear our beloved nation apart.
27. Those who may harbor any intentions of
testing our will by unleashing violence during the
elections in order to advance their political
ambitions should think again as all necessary
measures have been put in place to ensure that
any persons who breach the peace or cause
public disorder during or after the elections are
speedily apprehended and summarily dealt with
according to our laws.
28. The nation’s security agencies are also
fully prepared and ready to deal decisively with
any group or persons who attempt to disrupt the
peaceful conduct of the elections or cause any
form of public disorder.
29. Our dear country, Nigeria is the largest
democracy amongst black nations of the world.
We are a nation of great accomplishments, with a
proud history of evolving affinities.
30. Let us go out tomorrow to vote peacefully
and set a fitting example of political maturity for
other emerging democracies to follow.
31. I wish you all and our dear nation, very
peaceful and successful elections.
32. May God Almighty continue to bless the
Federal Republic of Nigeria.
33. I thank you all.

Why FG, AMCON must pay N132bn to Bi-Courtney, Babalakin

After yet another victorious outing against the Asset
Management Corporation of Nigeria, AMCON, at the Court of
Appeal in Lagos, Wednesday, Bi-Courtney Limited has
explained why AMCON and the Federal Government must pay
N132 billion damages as earlier ordered by a court.
*Babalakin
Demanding AMCON’s compliance with the order of Justice
G.K. Olotu of the Federal High Court, Abuja, on April 5, 2012,
in the suit number: FHC/ABJ/CS/50/09, in a statement
yesterday, the Chairman of Bi-Courtney Limited, Dr. Wale
Babalakin, explained how AMCON had allegedly attempted to
take over the assets of his companies; how the agency had
failed to obey a court order to pay N132 billion damages, and
how it had deliberately misinformed the public about the facts
of the issues.
Paragraphs three and four of the order stated: “An order
directing the defendant/respondent (Attorney General of the
Federation), being the Chief Law Officer and legal
representative of the Federal Government and all its agents/
agencies, including the government institutions and bodies
responsible for the payment of the sum due to the applicant,
to mandatorily compel the said government institutions and
bodies to immediately comply with the judegment of this court
by making without any further delay the payment of
N132,540,580,304.00 to the Plaintiff/Applicant in fulfilment of
the aforesaid order of this court.
“An order directing the defendant/respondent, being the Chief
Law Officer and legal representative of the Federal Government
to set off from the above-mentioned amount any claims
agreed with the Plaintiff/Applicant to be due from the Plaintiff/
Applicant to any agency of the Federal Government, including
but not limited to the AMCON.’’

Jonathan: Uncommon journey to greatness

President Goodluck Jonathan comes across as one of the
favourites in tomorrow’s election. Having learnt the ropes as a
deputy governor, Vice-President, acting-President and
President, he appears well groomed for the position he is
seeking.
President Goodluck Jonathan
The fact that he is the incumbent President, creates an aura
of edge around him, but that is limited by arguments that
incumbency does not seem to be an asset in this race.
His journey from the creeks of the Niger-Delta region to the
highest office in Nigeria, was obviously very unlikely.
Such journeys are only possible in a few places and hardly
possible in this part of the globe.
Jonathan’s rise from a shoeless son of a local ship builder to
the highest office in the land is a remarkable reflection of the
Shakespearean quote that ‘’Some are born great, some
achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon
them,’’ Jonathan had greatness thrust upon him.
That does not imply that the President did not arm himself
with the prerequisites required for greatness to be thrust upon
him.
Just as his name ‘’Goodluck’’ suggests, Jonathan, who was
born in 1957, has been extremely lucky in his public career,
leading to the belief that he is being favoured by unseen
hands.
Jonathan, who has a doctorate degree in Zoology had often
been at the right place at the right time, thereby becoming a
beneficiary of various top leadership vacuums that had existed
in Nigeria’s political trajectory.
Until mid 1998, he was a deputy director in the Oil Minerals
Producing Areas Development Commission, OMPADEC, residing
in the OMPADEC quarters, Port-Harcourt, Rivers State.
Sometime late that year, he played host to a former military
man who incidentally, he was meeting for the first time.
For that visit by the then Bayelsa State gubernatorial aspirant,
Chief Diepreye Alamieyeseigha, Jonathan would have by now
been approaching his retirement from the civil service.
Alamieyeseigha, who was accompanied on that trip by one
Gordon Bozimo, went there with the simple request of telling
Jonathan, who he had never met to resign from the services
of OMPADEC to become his running mate.
Though Jonathan accepted after some time, Alamieyeseigha
was to change his mind upon some intrigues that arose and
had proposed to drop Jonathan from the ticket but one
incident or another delayed the process of substituting him
putting him in good luck to become the deputy governor of
Bayelsa State at the advent of the Fourth Republic.
In the second term of that administration, luck again fell on
Jonathan in December, 2005 when Alamieyeseigha was
removed from office. Jonathan was not directly involved and
he according to sources took safety in Bauchi under the
protective comfort of the then governor of the state, Adamu
Mu‘azu while the political intrigues played out in his native
Bayelsa State.
After becoming governor, all he wanted was to win the 2007
election and was on his way in that regard after riding the tide
of incumbency to edge out the more rooted Timi Alaibe. But
his course and the nation’s course was changed when luck
again smiled on him to pick up the vice-presidential ticket of
the party.
Not long after the luck of Jonathan came calling again when
he was elevated to the presidency in 2010 after the death of
President Umaru Yar‘Adua. Before then he had become he had
by the Doctrine of Necessity, projected by the National
Assembly been declared as acting president.
In the election that followed in 2011, Jonathan triumphed over
two of his main challengers to become the first person in the
history of Nigeria to have served as deputy governor,
governor, vice president, acting president and president.
It is a record that has put him as the most experienced
executive office holder in the history of Nigeria.
His record, however, is a matter of divided opinions between
his passionate supporters and his critics.

Sunday, 15 March 2015

Photos: Former Fidelity Bank MD, Reginald Ihejiahi's daughter weds

Ezinne, the beautiful daughter of former Managing Director of Fidelity Bank, Reginald Ihejiahi, got married to her man, Adefolabi Akanbi Ogundoyin, in London yesterday March 14th. More pics after the cut...



Super friendly exes! Lenny Kravitz & ex-wife Lisa Bonnet grab lunch

Lenny Kravitz, 50, and Lisa Bonet, 47, got married in 1987 and divorced in 1993. The couple who have been divorced for nearly 22 years, were spotted grabbing lunch in Beverly Hills on Saturday. Their daughter is famous actress Zoe Kravitz, who recently told Ocean Drive mag that her parents still have so much love for each other:
“It makes things so easy that my parents are still very close, they have so much love for each other. My dad and my step-dad (actor Jason Mamoa) get along really well, and my dad loves and is close with my brother and sister. It’s really beautiful. As long as everyone can be in the same room together, and have love for each other, it’s totally healthy.” More pics of the couple after the cut...

"I don't have any budget attached to my office, come and probe me' - Patience Jonathan

First Lady, Dame Patience Jonathan says she is ready to be probed following accusations from some quarters that her office is funded from the federal budget. She said this while speaking at the PDP Women rally in Edo state yesterday March 14th.
"Mrs. Jonathan is the first lady of this country. There is no budget, no constitutional rights. So if from tomorrow you hear Mrs. Jonathan is corrupt, am I holding your money? Are you giving me any budget ? I don’t have any budget attached to my office. Go and probe my office. Go and probe me and see whether there is any budget attached to my office. Go and probe and see whether there is any money they send to my office. I don’t touch your money. Whatever I have, I struggled for it. I worked for it. I suffered for it,” she said.