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Saturday, 10 January 2015

Blogging Advice For Beginners


"Starting a blog is kind of like buying a house: you decide
what neighborhood you want to live in, pick a house, and fill it
with your stuff. For a blogger, that means deciding on a
blogging platform, picking a theme, and publishing posts. "
I assume if you're here, then you must own a blog, or intend
to own one (or just want to see what this person has to say).
I've been an active (hopefully) member on the blogosphere for
a little less than a year now, experimented with a couple of
things and learned lots more. Today I'll try to explain some of
the most basic rules beginners/prospective/dissatisfied
bloggers could use to get their sites running.
Like the quote above, starting a blog is a lot like owning a
house. You need to pay attention to your needs and that of
your visitors too.
I'll be keeping each point raised as simple as possible (each
one could fit into an individual topic), so if you need further
explanation don't hesitate to let me know.
Note: Everything here is based on personal experience/
experiments with my own blog Click here
So let's get started:
1. Know why you are here :
People blog for different reasons. It could be for financial
purposes, community building, rendering your quota of help to
a dying race, advertising your company etc.
So the first thing you need to ask yourself is, "why do I need a
blog?"
Do I want to pursue excellence, create something for myself,
become more visible on the web, or just because Jack owns a
blog too?
If you don't know why you're here, then we don't know either.
2. Choose a suitable platform
Once you've successfully figured out the 'why', the next step
is to find an appropriate location to help you actualize your
goal. There are so many platforms that allow you create a
blog for free. Most common in this part of the world are
Blogger/Blogspot and Wordpress. If you want a more
professional feel and full control over your site, then you can
find a suitable web host who charge meager fees annually.
Make sure you study the proposed environment before pitching
your tent. Some common questions you might like to ask
yourself are: How interactive is this platform? Is it easily
assessable? How much control do I have? Is it reasonably
safe from hackers? Do I feel at home here?
Once you've gotten the nitty-gritty down, you can pitch your
tent and choose a unique address for yourself.
3. Content is everything
Or so the saying goes. Remember you're here for a reason, be
it connecting or just plain gossiping to/about the human race.
Pay adequate attention to the things you write and how they
are presented on your site. Last I checked plagiarism was still
an offence, so if you are not going give visitors original
content, then have the courtesy to give credit to Mama Emeka
who was kind enough to cook it up.
If and when you do decide to create something of your own,
then be proud enough to display it. Proof read for typos
because no one wants to be hit by roadblocks at every
paragraph. I believe there's a writer in everyone, and
something must work for you. Find your voice and stay true to
yourself.
4. Find your voice
Have you ever heard someone speak, or the sound of their
footfall and even without looking, you could tell exactly who it
was?
If your answer is yes, then you can create the exact feeling on
your blog. Every writer has a voice even though it might take a
while to find and hone it. Most times we spend our time trying
to sound like someone else--that's a lot like living another
persons' life. Finding your voice is like finding yourself, a very
unique you. If it helps, you can try free-writing for a couple of
minutes (first draft) and do that without editing. When you
read aloud to yourself, what does it sound like?
Your readers want you, so give them the authentic version of
yourself. There's no point lying to score cheap points--
practice honesty without full disclosure if you must.
5. Content loves design
Your theme is your colour book and the one thing that makes
your content shine. One rule of thumb is to keep your design
as simple as possible, using only very necessary widgets to
create the best user experience (including loading time).
Remember, your purpose of blogging is for people to pay
attention to what you're trying to communicate, not ooh and
ahh over your struggle with the rainbow.
Most themes come ready made with template options--
headers, widgets, so tweak and play with everything until you
find something that feels comfortable and easy on the eyes.
Otherwise you could purchase Premium themes to give more
options if what's available is unsuitable, or just pay someone
to tell you want you need. Also ensure to choose a theme that
allows for a cluster-free mobile/tablet view.
If memory serves me well, I tried our over 10 different themes
within the course of 8mths all the while publishing posts
before settling for what's currently in use.
If you want, you can pick one theme now, start publishing, and
then revisit themes again once you have a number of posts on
your blog. This will help you see just what is suitable for you
keeping your content and readers in mind.
Don't hold back. Your blog will be your home for as long as
you decide to keep it running. Choose a suitable design and
love it.
P.S There's more to this than I actually said (eg fonts, colour
palettes, images etc.) so we can further discuss it if you want.
6. Interact with the blogosphere
If your purpose of blogging is to create a diary or make
money, then please jump to 7. If you are interested in
community building, please read on.
There is something extremely boring about living in housing
estates: Nobody wants to see their neighbors, or feel the need
to see them to begin with. If that's the kind of environment
you want--a blog without comments or life--then by all
means be a loner.
Otherwise you can get out of your hole and find people.
It's a rich community out there, and if there's something I've
learned, it's that people want to talk. Seriously. It might be
difficult to find one blog in a sea of a million, but when you
start getting those likes, shares, comment and appreciation
mails, it's accompanied by a warm fuzzy feeling.
Chances of people locating you are really slim, but you can
speed things up by visiting others sites and leaving
meaningful comments. And by "meaningful" I don't mean
'nice one', 'cool', 'ok'....no. Say something that tells the
author you've actually read their post, you understand exactly
what they are talking about, or that you don't get what's
going on but you wish things will go well for them in the
future...or share your story too.
Emotions is a universal language and people connect through
it (something our politicians have on lockdown)....take
advantage of that and you'll see people--authors and their
guests-- returning the favour by visiting your site to get more
of you. Life is give and take. And so is blogging.
7. Take advantage of social media
When the stats monkeys on WordPress sent my annual report
for 2014, I found that my top referring sites were Nairaland,
Facebook, Twitter and of course other blogs I'd visited. This
tells me there are people out there who are curious enough to
click on links, like what they see and share with their
community too. It's basic networking and you can get that to
work for you. Just add those share buttons to your site and
encourage your readers to share whatever they like. They
might not be saying much but at least you know they're
coming. Also remember to tell your friends about your blog
and request their support. You can only be so good to attract
people like bees, but you also need to make them feel needed.
8. Find support
You are not all-knowing and the epitome of supreme
knowledge. Even after following these, you'll still need a
second and third opinion, beta readers and explanations for all
the techie stuff that'll improve your site. Best way to
approach this is by seeking help from people who are more
knowledgeable and don't mind extending a helping hand.
When I started my blog I got super confused at some point
that I had to ask some nairalanders for help. What I got in
return was priceless.
If you don't know where to turn, find someone from the
webmaster section of this forum, create a thread stating your
difficulties, consult search engines or contact support from
your host platform. The world is filled with people who want
to extend their knowledge and skills to others.
9. Be patient
We all like to believe miracles happen--and sometimes they
do--but they don't always come when we want it. The best
gift you can give yourself is patience. It can be a bit daunting
waiting for something big to happen, but it will happen if you
stay true to yourself and work a little harder. Everything
comes with a price and yours will be time and dedication. If
you put in effort to improve your site, content and relationship
with people, I bet you'll see results.
10. Remember how small you are on the web. There will
always be people who write better than you, communicate
better and are way better at blog-hopping. When you see
those stats displayed at the bottom of their page, or the
50-200 comments, you will wonder when and if you'll ever be
as big as they are. But never forget how big you can become .
Push yourself, experiment, have fun, steal ideas (duh!), buddy
up and for goodness sake love your blog. If you can't love it,
then neither can we.
Note: I am not a pro-blogger (or whatever those are called)
....just one person among billions discovering a new
community and enjoying it. You'll get more tips when I'm
done tweaking and exploring (no, you can't call me a lab rat )
Questions, Comments, Additions, Subtractions.....??

Tuesday, 6 January 2015

Photos: Police gives families of missing police officers N500k each as compensation

Six families of policemen who were declared missing after Boko Haram attacked the Police Mobile Training College in Gwoza, Borno state on August 20th 2014 have been compensated with N500,000 each by the Force Headquarters.

At a ceremony which held yesterday at the Police Mobile Force 50 Base, Kubwa Abuja, the wives of the missing soldiers were presented with cheques and the police promised to pay them the salaries of their missing husbands for one year. More photos after the cut...

 

Beautiful Nebo Olive dies a day after celebrating seeing 2015

Stunning Nebo Olive Ozioma died a day after she excitedly posted this new year message on her Facebook page. I'm not so sure how she died, but her friends on Facebook said she went to jog in her neighborhood and something went horribly wrong. She was a graduate of the University of Nsukka. So sad! May her soul rest in peace, amen. Continue...



Life!!

New video: Gloria Ibru ft O' Franklin - Suga Mama

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Gloria started singing at age seven as a member of the All Saints Anglican Church choir, Yaba. She was a member of the church choir until she was 27 years old. Even when she traveled to the US for her university education, she still found time to sing in the church choir whenever she was home on holiday. However, singing socially did not start for her until she returned home finally in 1987.

"I did it as a hobby," she says, "and because I love to sing, I sang everywhere. Professionally, when I started making money from it was 16 years ago when I opened the bar. I have been doing this for basically all my life. I sang in the school choir, church choir, but the band has been doing this together professionally for 17 years."

Her love for music made her open a bar called Mama G's at Apapa. She had a band that used to come in to perform every night. But the band's inconsistency in putting up appearances at Mama G's forced her to put a band together and begin a new career in music.

Ibru has done three bars and each of them failed due to rent challenges. This may sound ridiculous considering her father's wealth. Owning a property shouldn't be a problem. But Ibru will have none of that at all. She is too independent-minded to be clouded by her father's business empire and wealth. "Is it my father that wants to open a bar?" she asks unashamedly. "I am the one that wants to open a bar so I should work hard towards acquiring my own. My father is still alive. He has not divided his property."

Ibru's passion lies with highlife, jazz and calypso. Often her beat could be a mixture of the three genres. Little wonder she says: "My album will be a fusion of highlife and jazz, highlife and calypso. Those are my genres. I use my songs to fight for all kinds of issues. There are jazz artistes, there are highlife artistes, but I call mine jazz life. It is a fusion of highlife and jazz."

With jazz life, Ibru's own creation, one is not surprised that she may be towing the line of great musicians like Fela Anikulapo, Sunny Ade, etc who created and popularised their own kind of music that have become legendary. Hence she defines good music as "music that is constructed".

"What I understand as a good song has verse, chorus, verse, chorus bridge, chorus end. There is construction to music. I don't understand how you will go into a studio, cook a beat down in 10 minutes and just sing la-la-la-l-ala and say you have done music. That is not music, that is a beat on your computer," she says.

Lol. See what a Nigerian dropped on Miley Cyrus Facebook page

The hustle is real. And he's not joking o...lol

Oh dear! See what this woman did to herself just to get bigger butt

27 year old Brazilian beauty Andressa Urach spent a month in intensive care after cosmetic gels rotted her muscles after she got surgery to enhance her butt. The model, who was 2nd runner Miss Bum Bum Brazil in 2012, said she feared she would lose her leg after the gel inserted into each of her upper thighs 'rotted' her muscles. Her wounds then got infected, causing septic shock.

She reportedly had injections of two filers, hydrogel and PMMA, to make her butt larger but a few months after the cosmetics surgery, she knew something was wrong as she became uncomfortable. The gel had to be drained from her butt. "The hydrogel was not absorbed by my body and started to harm me." she told Brazil's R7 website...
The model recently released photos taken during her month in intensive care. See the graphic pics after the cut...


Photos: Woman brutally beaten by husband for allegedly greeting her pastor

Story sent to me and written by journalist and lawyer, Barrister Chukwudi Iwuchukwu. Read below...
For Comfort Oluwaseun Adebowale, Marriage is for better for worse. This principle has been her  guiding Philosophy since she walked down  the aisle with her husband of 15 years Olorode Abimbola Gbenga (pictured right) a teacher in Abeokuta Ogun State.
Comfort (pictured left) decided to love and give him a chance when they met in 1999 though he was a nobody then, his parents were late and his family abadoned him to fate and harsh realities of the society 
She was the one paying the bills and sponsoring him in school, in her words" I did it for love believing I was investing in the future of the man That I loved And wanted to spend the rest of my life with"
The husband pictured above
Things took downturn in 2008 when the husband got a Job and then his behavior  changed, he started keeping late night, started behaving funny, answering calls from unknown women and then the worse of it, she  became his punching bag


I was enduring, hoping and praying that he will change, I cried to God in the night to touch his heart and bring him back home but it seem that things were getting worse she told me in an emotion laden voice

My husband of 15 years decided to rub it on me by dating my friend, a prophetess in our church and the wife of the shepherd of  Christ Anointed & Miracle Church Aregbesola Eleweran Abeokuta.
Temitope Adeniji

In a telephone conversation with this reporter, the battered woman narrated that the husband and the prophetess started dating late last year and then afraid that Karma will catch him, he directed her not to respond, greet  or be found talking with the man he snatched his wife who is incidentally the good shephard of their church, Pastor Samuel Adeniji, Good Shepherd   position akin to a pastor in modern pentecostal church

A directive that she disobeyed on Saturday 3rd January 2015, On her to the market, she saw the Pastor that the Husband snatched the wife sitting in front of their church, she stopped to greet him  and and before one could say Jack Robinson, the Husband appeared on the scene and   what happened next looks like a horror straight from Nollywood Film

The enraged husband slapped her in public and if that was not enough, he picked a stone from the ground and smashed it on her fore head, raining unprintable words on her and cursing her to die.

 Comfort was left in a pool of her blood and it took the intervention of good spirited individuals who took her to the hospital

When I asked her whether  she has reported the matter to Police, she said yes she has done that  only that his Father-in-Law ACP Olorode Timothy  retired as a policeman and the husband has been using that influence to stop the police investigation from going on

Oluwaseun Comfort Adebowale wants women suffering Domestic Violence to learn from her story and  do the Honorable thing and walk out before it is too late

Oluwaseun Comfort Adebowale can be reached on this number 08122174991 for further assistance and help

The Writer Barrister Chukwudi Iwuchukwu Is On Twitter And Tweets On @Chukwudi1985

Boko Haram Can’t Stop Elections In Northeast – Governors

The Governors of Borno, Adamawa and Yobe states, the worst hit in Boko Haram attacks, say elections will hold in their states next month despite the security challenges posed by Boko Haram.

According to KSM News, the governors of Borno State Governor Kashim Shettima and his Yobe counterpart, Ibrahim Gaidam stated this while speaking to State House correspondents after a security meeting with President Jonathan at the presidential Villa, Abuja today January 6th.

The Governors argued that if elections could hold in troubled countries like Iraq, Afghanistan and Pakistan, then the Northeast states shouldn’t be an exception. Then they requested the deployment of more troops to effectively manage the insurgency crisis being faced in their states.

Photos of 2014 Miss Curves UNILAG

Curvaceous Fanti is the current Miss Curves UNILAG. She's Petrochemical Engineering student at the university. More pics after the cut...



Meet one of Kannywood's hottest actresses, Rahama Sadau

Kaduna-state born beautiful Rahama Ibrahim Sadau has been described as one of the hottest Kannywood actresses on the scene at the moment. The 24 year old Business Administration graduate of Kaduna Polytechnic joined the Hausa movie industry in 2012 and is the only Hausa actress that speaks Hindi fluently and is also vast in Indian dancing.

Rahama played several minor roles before hitting it big with a lead role in Gani ga Wane' alongside popular Kannywood actor Ali Nuhu, who is also managing her career. Rahama, who has a huge fan base in the north, recently won Best New Actress (Kannywood) at City People Awards 2014..



Mother-in-law vs daughter-in-law by flamboyant psycholoist Adejoro Olumofin

Letter to the Ladies Vol. 11. This article was written by Flamboyant Psychologist Adejoro Olumofin.

(Learn Assertive Training and Diplomatic means with your Mother-in-law)

What is Assertive Training?

This is a Psychological process in which you learn how to express your views without being rude or suggestive to second or third party. This being said, the Mother-in-law/Daughter-in-law "beef" or dispute is a Universal Phenomenon which has caused a lot of problems and ended a lot of happy marriages and relationships. Some of these disputes have led to verbal abuse, shouting matches, fights over territory in the kitchen, disagreement over naming of children and even Physical confrontations between Mothers and Daughters-in-law. 

For you to understand any situation you have to go to its origin, ladies take note, before you came into the equation, the apple of your bae's eye and his number one protector was his mother who he showered with love and affection and then you came into the picture and suddenly all the attention shifted from his mother to you. This change is a process, naturally there will be some tension because it takes some time for mothers in-law to get used to the fact that their sons are no longer 100% theirs and they have to share him, or permission has to be sort on certain things in his life which they usually did directly or without question. 
Ladies, you need to learn to be diplomatic with your mothers in-law because you have more to lose than them. Pick your battles, most times, your boyfriend or husband will take his mom's side if any dispute arises. Let me also say that no amount of Diplomacy or Assertive Training will help you if your man is a "Mommy's Boy" and can't handle his mom or if his mom doesn't like you. Therefore, if you're in this situation where your man can not defend you or hold your hand, you need to develop a thick skin, have patience and most importantly PRAY. Studies have shown that the mother-in-law/daughter-in-law relationship is one of the most difficult in social psychology and there isn't any clear cut solution or approach towards this, because the variables always differ i.e different mothers/daughters-in-law have different cultural backgrounds, personalities and family structures. Dear Ladies, may you not fall into a bad mother-in-law situation. However, learn to adapt to your environment and also learn how to manage such delicate relationship in a diplomatic way. Dear mothers in-law, with due respect, I appeal to you to use your wealth of experience to deal with your daughters in-law in tactful ways, for the benefit of your son towards maintaining a happy married life..

Read More Articles on Adejoro Olumofins Instagram : @joroolumofin


Adejoro is also giving out 1500 of his star studded "Doktor" Mofin SnapBacks to his fans and well wishers from February 14 2015..

Photos: Buhari kicks off campaign in Port Harcourt

APC Presidential candidate Gen Muhammadu Buhari arrived Port Harcourt, Rivers state this morning where he will officially kick off his presidential campaign. More photos after the cut...