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Sunday, 15 March 2015
Super friendly exes! Lenny Kravitz & ex-wife Lisa Bonnet grab lunch
“It makes things so easy that my parents are still very close, they have so much love for each other. My dad and my step-dad (actor Jason Mamoa) get along really well, and my dad loves and is close with my brother and sister. It’s really beautiful. As long as everyone can be in the same room together, and have love for each other, it’s totally healthy.” More pics of the couple after the cut...
"I don't have any budget attached to my office, come and probe me' - Patience Jonathan
"Mrs. Jonathan is the first lady of this country. There is no budget, no constitutional rights. So if from tomorrow you hear Mrs. Jonathan is corrupt, am I holding your money? Are you giving me any budget ? I don’t have any budget attached to my office. Go and probe my office. Go and probe me and see whether there is any budget attached to my office. Go and probe and see whether there is any money they send to my office. I don’t touch your money. Whatever I have, I struggled for it. I worked for it. I suffered for it,” she said.
Damilola Attoh shares cute pic of her son to celebrate Mothers Day
APC Governorship aspirant in Kogi state dies in fatal accident
A family spokesman, Abubakar Aliyu said the 36 year old politician was returning from Abuja to Kogi with his younger brother when the chattered vehicle they were riding in got involved in the accident. All occupants in the car died. Continue...
According to the family spokesman
“Omeiza spoke with his father around 1.30pm Saturday few minutes into the ill fated journey and barely half an hour, we received the shocking and sad news of his demise from a samaritans from the scene of the accident. From the report we received none of passengers on the ill fated Sharon car survived and they have been given mass burial at location at Jere town”.Speaking on his children's death, Alhaji Momohjimoh Aliyu said he has taken the incident as an act of God ” I have accepted it as an act of God. They are from God and they have returned to Him at appointed time and on our part we have accepted it as an act of God” he said.
Cameroon suspends 2 senior army chiefs after 25 Boko Haram men die in detention
Remember 1986? How Jonathan saved Nigeria from its imminent worst disaster
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August 21, 1986. 1,700 people and 3,000 herds of cattle and other livestock died after the eruption of a volcanic Lake Nyos in Cameroon. The Lake represents the biggest ecological (flood) threat to Nigeria. This disaster, if allowed to occur, will destroy several states in Nigeria especially Taraba, Benue, Cross River, Kogi and Delta and it is imminent. (Think about Haiti for 1 Minute, that’s a real Disaster there!) What did Jonathan do?
Yes it his Job (Hian)! Were there not many other governments and Presidents in this Country that did nothing about it? But no, he would not wickedly, or like the others before him ignore the future’s ugly reality. President Jonathan gave competent Female Minister Mrs. Sarah Ochekpe the go-ahead and approved 100% funding of $1bn for one of the country’s most ambitious Projects; the Kashimbilla Multipurpose Buffer Dam Project which will not just prevent the devastating flood but harness its potentials to become a Major Source of Life.
The Dam presently at over 90% completion will now serve to ensure;
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The Scope of the Project covers: Construction of the Main Dam; Construction of Water Treatment Plant; Construction of an Access Road; Construction of an Hydropower Plant; Development of Irrigation Network; Construction of Air Strip and Rehabilitation of Kashimbilla - Jato-Aka road (21km). Photos below:
To date, remarkable progress has been achieved in all the various parts of the project. The Kashimbilla Dam project is therefore a proactive preemptive response by the Federal Government of Nigeria to the report of the United Nations Environmental Programme (UNEP) of great catastrophe that might result from imminent collapse of Lake Nyos.
What should be done for a man who has done this much? Thank him
Graphic Image of Lake Nyos Disaster Victims
Wizkid's girlfriend Tania Omotayo puts her bikini body on display
British Airways flight is aborted just minutes after take-off - and you won't believe why
Councillor Abhishek Sachdev, from Hertfordshire, says he was on the BA flight to Dubai when it was forced to return to Heathrow.
It is understood that cabin crew unsuccessfully tried to fix the problem, but the flight was forced to turn around when the odour became unbearable for passengers.
Coun Sachdev, a town councillor in Herftordshire, tweeted:
Coun Sachdev told the Mail Online: "The pilot made an announcement requesting senior cabin crew, and we knew something was a bit odd. About 10 minutes later he said you may have noticed there’s a quite pungent smell coming from one of the toilets. He said it was liquid faecal excrement, those are the words he used. He said it’s not a technical fault with the plane, and he was very adamant about that."
Passengers were then told that the plane would be forced to return to London for health and safety reasons, said Coun Sachdev.
It is believed that passengers were due to board another flight, but what was due to be a three-hour wait turned into a 15 hour delay.
A British Airways spokesperson told the Welwyn Hatfield Times: "We’re very sorry for the discomfort to our customers. We provided them with hotel accommodation and rescheduled the flight to depart the following day’s lunchtime on an alternative aircraft."
Source: UK Mirror
TV journalist Adaure Achumba gets engaged + tells their love story
Adaure's story which she shared on instagram
"LongStoryButHereIsShortVersion He proposed on the spot we first met in fall 1999 by the volleyball court at Criage Hall dorm @UNCchapelHill...i started randomly and typically started smack talking with his then random college kid @wesballance who said to me "Girl I'm Gonna Marry You" ...and in dismissed him in a very Nigerian manner just thinking he was just joking around and flaterring me...really who says that on first meeting...in my head i was like #Hiss #AbegGuyComotForRoad. Lol. We became friends and hung out in the same crew. We went bar hopping on #FranklinStreet and a few games. I failed my first semester cos i was always hanging out with him and @kidkhome and the rugby boys at the pit in front of Lenoir Cafeteria. I had a crush on him and enjoyed his company and he had a crush on me but i was just too green in the romance department to read the signs and he thought i was the biggest #IceQueen #GoodyTwoShoe #TotalNigerianPrincess #AintGotTimeForThat.The biggest irony in this my not so simple love story is i ended up dating another guy with the same first name and he my french tutor. We moved on and graduated but stayed friends...Fast forward to Fall 2014 (Tell you what...immo skip that part for the wedding) and now here we are ������...i even got punked for the proposal so there is a hidden_surprise cam video by @dr_adeyanju #BestBirthdayEver
Photos: Take a look at the Airport in Yola...
Wednesday, 11 March 2015
10 Types Of People You Will Find In JAMB Exam Centres
Hehe!!!...As we all know, we are the period of JAMB, so i've
drafted a list of the possible types of people you'll meet in the
exam centers.
1. The first timers : They look so young and naive and you
begin to wonder how a small boy/gal can be writing JAMB you
can spot them by thier behaviors of asking so many irrelevant
questions like will calculators be given? how many questions
in English? Etc
2. The fashion freaks: Need as say more about these people,
they will go and buy new clothes and make new hairs for a
day exam(na exam no b party na)
3. The I don't care : they don't care if they pass or fail JAMB,
because na Private university their papa dey carry them go
4. Legend of Admission Seekers : Even Dibu knows these
people; they have written JAMB up to 10 times(okay I
exaggerated)
5. The Gurus these are the people that will score like 300+ in
JAMB, you can hardly recognize them, them be like winch
6. Those that came to chyke gals and vise versa I wonder if
these people have no ambition, they will be thinking about
how to get the number of the fair gal with big boobs after the
exam.
7. The expo carriers even if JAMB starts Oral based Test, they
will still cheat, I wonder how they do it
8. Those who will pass
9. Those who will fail
10. Add yours and let the flow continuem
I wish all Jambites success, we go open testimony thread for
Una, may you be part of that thread IJN.
How I Taught My Boastful Date A Lesson
From one if my badest users lol read below------
Ever Gone On A Date With A Braggart Before?
I went out on a date on Sunday with this guy who had this
very amazing personality. We started talking and I was
initially enjoying it till he started bragging. He bragged
throughout the night about what he has achieved in his young
life, flaunting his phones and how he has travelled around the
world and all those unnecessary stuff. I was starting to get
bored so I pretended to doze off and he shook me up and
asked me if I wanted to go home. I just told him he was
talking too much so I wanted to go home.
He asked me out on Tuesday and it was even worse than
Sunday. The guy bragged so much I decided to teach him a
lesson. I ordered so much food I didn't even touch it. He kept
asking if I wouldn't eat and I told him I will. This guy was
insisting on me ordering more stuff since money is not a
problem to him. I ordered more and ordered for a takeaway for
my sis. But I swear I didn't eat anything. The guy started
complaining when he had to pay saying I had wasted the food
and money and I told him he can let them pack it for him.
LOL.
He has been calling me since and i ve not not answered.I dont
think i want to date a guy like dat but if he insist i will show
him pepper.
Telling Them About Her Past Relationship Keep Driving ThemAway- Advise Her.
Please read and share your thoughts.....................
''I'm a divorced lady. My marriage to my ex was based on
lots of deceit with
both physical and emotional abuse. The only option was just
for it to be
dissolved. Mind you I prayed and fasted but water could not
just hold. I
had to question God for putting me through such pain and
trauma but I guess his plan for me was for good.
But my problem now is each time I meet someone nice and I
mention to him that I'm divorced, the relationship ends. He'll
apologize and say I've done
nothing wrong, I have a good personality but he knows his
family will not accept me cos of my marital status.
It makes me cry a lot. I'm the quiet
type and keep to myself a lot. I've tried talking to some
people and they
advice I stop telling them am divorced.
But how will I keep such a thing away from someone that has
maybe
professed love to you even when the person has gone to the
extent of
telling you he'll like to spend the rest of his life with you?
My conscience won't let me but I don't know again the right
thing to do.
Right now I feel lonely and frustrated, no boyfriend or man to
call my
own. Scared of loving again because I don't want to fall in
love and be
told same thing.
I just want to know how to go about it, open up or don't even
talk about
it.''
She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A ResponsibleMan?
sorry readers I was off for a while but am back now.... got this from a reader " I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it
bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my
picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to
admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none
of them could approach me for a serious relationship because
they often think I am taken.
Pls, my beloved #readers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate
calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the
men ain't just coming
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Tuesday, 3 March 2015
Relationship Between AA And SS
from a user view message below :
Hey Guys,
I'm in a fix right now. I created this account to seek advice
about my current situation. I have seen some very good and
some not-so-good advice being dished out here. I really hope
I get more of the former.
So there's this lady who I'm interested in dating. infact, I was
about to ask her out yesterday when one thing led to another
and she told me she was SS.
Here's a little background to this:
1. I consider myself a good guy. I'm not a player and I can't
date you if I don't see us heading to the aisle. I have been in
relationships before which have ended but I don't date with
the intention of ending it.
2. Because of Number 1, I don't just ask out anyone. I start
by being friends and then if I see a future, I'll then take it
forward else we mutually friendzone ourselves. I'm different,
Bite me.
3. This Lady ticks most of the boxes I think is important. And
I actually believe(d) that this would be my Last Bus stop.
However, I don't want to get a wife who'll leave me soon.
4. I'm AA
I'll be grateful if you guys help me with answers to this:
a) Should I go on with this? or should I free her? or go
against everything I believe in and break off the relationship
once her next crises comes. (OMG, that's brutal. I'm cringing
just writing that)
b) I know if we have kids, they'll be AS. What chances of
survival does she have? at least to get up until 70. She's 25
right now.
Searching for a wife is hard. I really don't want to lose a good
one ( If I don't have to ) and start searching again.
Why Are Most Tattooed Nigerian Ladies Aggressively Rude,Unreliable&Promiscuous?
Personally speaking and generally summarizing, most tattooed
Nigerian ladies with multiple piercing are aggressively ill-
mannered, rude, promiscuous; they live a life that head
towards destruction and they are adamant to correction. They
are quick to anger, they talk without manners and wouldn't
hesitate to tear you to pieces if you give a contrary opinion
about tattoo
However, statistical evidence showing that barely would you
see a responsible lady that lives a life worth emulating be
caught doing all these things. More so, I have also noticed
that many guys only date them as girlfriends and will not take
them to their parents because it's an inscription that they are
irresponsible, wayward and are not the right prospects for a
responsible man. In fact, I dare not take those kinds of ladies
to my parents
Though many of our mothers have old school patterns on their
body and are not judged falsely, but this is 2015, things are
now taking turns and the world has evolved into a different
thing entirely. It takes the grace of God to find a lady a
tattooed lady with waist chain, anklet and multiple piercing
with a good character
On a second thought, one's physical however has nothing to
do with attitude and not all tattooed ladies are rotten. As a
matter of fact, it looks like there are magical powers that goes
with tattoo which makes most tattooed Nigerian ladies rude,
unreliable, promiscuous and irresponsible
Ladies and gentlemen, let's be practical here and take the
western culture out of it. Remember we are talking about
Nigerian ladies
Why Are Most Tattooed Nigerian Ladies Aggressively Rude,
Unreliable & Promiscuous?
My Girlfriend's Love For Money Pushed Me Into Robbery ––Armed Robber Confesses
Guys, please don't allow any girl push you into nonsense so
you don't end up in regrets. Some of these so called fine girls
their own brothers are broke, yet other girls agree to marry
them. So, any girl who can't marry you for who you are, just
let her go and live your life with a virtuous woman.
As you read this, operatives of the Special Anti-Robbery
Squad, SARS, Enugu State police command, have arrested
Uchenna Ikwuegbu who was allegedly on the verge of
launching a robbery attack on residents of Maryland axis of
Enugu.
Uchenna was arrested on February 16, following surveillance
reports. He was arrested with a locally-made pistol, cut to
seize with two live cartridges.
In his confession, Uchenna said:
“I acquired the gun from a timber mill at Maryland. The urge
to meet up with the demands from my girlfriend, Chinaza,
living at Uwani axis of Enugu, propelled me into robbery.
“I had acquired the gun to unleash robbery attacks on
residents of Maryland in order to dispossess them of their
valuables. I was on the verge of carrying out the act when the
operatives swooped on me. I do not know how they knew I
was carrying a gun. I am so ashamed of myself now. I do not
know what led me into this.
“My parents are crying their hearts out over this incident. They
are so disappointed in me. I want to call on teenagers like me
to shun robbery and other nefarious activities because the
security operatives are always watching.
Saturday, 28 February 2015
8 Things You Should Never Do For A Lover You’ve NotMarried
Don't do these 8 things in a non-committal relationship
because, though love is spontaneous and doesn’t hold back, it
pays to be cautious, especially when there is no formal
commitment from the so-called lover.
Love is about giving in and giving up a few things, but…
1. Don’t change your personality. Now, they say you should
change for the one you love. Yes, that is true. But when the
changing comes from you alone and it seems like you’re being
re-manufactured, then something is wrong. No man or woman
should attempt to change you entirely, unless you really have
bad habits. Aside this, in the event that you’re separated, the
hurt will be worsened by the fact you won’t recognise
yourself. You’ll be nothing without that person. A person who
loves you must accept the real you.
2. Don’t abandon your dreams: This is another one you should
be careful about. Two people in love ca exist without killing
each other’s dreams. It is a good thing for both of you to alter
your careers and dreams to accommodate each other. But
there is a limit. A true lover would aid your dream, ask you to
abandon it. Work out a middle way. If you lose your dream for
a relationship that is not yet solid, marriage especially, sorry
will be your consolation when it ends.
3. Don’t abandon your friends and family. Hmmm, it really is
sad that some people let love kill their relationships with kith
and kin that they had before meeting their lover. They do not
realise that friends are the only thing you can fall back to
when you hit life’s road bumps. If a lover makes it a case to
break your link to friends and family, please exit. They should
find a way to accommodate your friends. If you lose your
friends to that relationship, what happens if it ends?
4. Don’t set up businesses or share details of official
information. Many people think it is love to expose their entire
business plans and financial information to a supposed lover.
But this is dangerous. A lot of people ‘love’ just to deceive
and maybe swindle. If they have access to sensitive official
details, like ATM card pins, internet bank passwords, property
document details, etc, you are exposed to danger!
5. Don’t become a donor agency. Lovers should help each
other, morally and financially. However, don’t be saddled to a
leech, a tick who only feeds off you. You’re not a bank
account or donor agency to anyone. As you give, make sure
it’s reasonable, and for genuine needs. A lover who always
returns for more is a gold-digger, a fraud that you don’t need.
Small money gifts are cool, but should not become the norm
and basis of love.
6. Don’t give unofficial loans, bad personal investments.
Loans are relationship killers. If a lover wants huge sums of
money from you, be wise and make it legal. At worst, make
sure the money is deposited to his/her bank account, to leave
a trail that can be used to retrieve it in case you guys fight.
To withdraw N200,000 and give to your lover in cash as a
loan is not wise. Instead, transfer via bank and write ‘loan’. If
the money is big a signed IOU might be necessary. Also avoid
foolish investments like setting up businesses or funding
projects without legal documents. This may look rigid, but
many people have killed ex-lovers because they could not
retrieve their ‘investments’.
7. Don’t give unfettered access to private emails and social
media accounts. In these modern times, social media
accounts are very sensitive. It should be as personal as
possible. Making it a public affair for a transient lover is bad,
bad and bad. Imagine the damage they could do if you break
up? He or she could for example lock you out of your own
account or even send out compromising messages through
your account.
8. Don’t reveal compromising information or damaging
materials. When we fall in love, there is the temptation to talk
too much, way too much than we need to. There should a lot
of discussion between people in a relationship. But some
things should never be said to some people who are not yet
fully committed to a relationship. Sharing intimate secrets will
put you up for future attacks. Ex-lovers are fond of sharing
demining information, like nudes or private talks.
Love doesn’t hold back, it is spontaneous, it is forgiving and
every other good thing.
But it pays to be cautious, especially when there is no formal
commitment from so-called lover.
To be in love is to love with wisdom and caution…
Tuesday, 24 February 2015
5 Classes Of People That Get The Most Beautiful Wife!
I have always wondered why some people marry ugly wives
and some get beautiful wives. It is not easy oo, you have to
take eyes to the market (moju lo soja).
1. Doctors: This is a highly rated job in the world. Women are
attracted by their intelligence and life savings acts. This sets
don't stress themselves up to get a good and beautiful
woman. People like Nneka123 will easily fall for them.
2. Bankers: hmmm! I wish i'm a banker. I went to a bank
days ago, come and see fyn girls as them plenty. The bankers
don't have problem to get the best of women. Thank God it's
now a condition whereby you will have to write your name
and phone number in a ledger before you leave the bank. Na
copy and paste stuff. GBAM! Dating follows. missjenna kinda
suite this type of people .
3. Comedian/Radio Presenters.
This set of people are soft minded, and they they have what is
called 'sugarcoated mouth'. Just few, charming, outspoken
words will get their heart for you they are not shy to face
anybody, even if na mizMycoli.
4. Pastors: Pastors just need a simple dream or vision to get
the beautiful lady in their church. No stress required, because
women love affluence and pastors have it.
5. Politicians:
Not much. But you know they are ontop of the world. They
have the fame, money, etc....
9 Types Of Men Women Avoid!
We all know that in as much as women are attracted to
certain types of men, there are other types of men that
women go out of their way to avoid. Here are some of
them.
The Non-Committed Guy
>>This is the guy that tells you he doesn’t want a
relationship immediately, the guy that can’t/won’t call
you his girlfriend when it’s way overdue, or the guy
that’s over 30 and hasn’t had at least two serious
relationships (or one very serious, 1+ years relationship).
It really doesn’t matter what his issues are, the bottom
linen a relationship with you. Do not try to change his
mind, turn him around, or make him want it. You’re just
going to waste your time.
The Mama's Boy:
>>The Mama’s Boy probably still lives with his parents in
their house, allowing Mom to iron his clothes, make his
bed and cook his meals. When a man delights in being
waited on hand-and-foot by his mom, there’s trouble. He
always asks his Mom before making major decisions in
his life and its a big problem for you if his Mom doesn’t
like you.
The underachievers:
>>You know the type. He sits at home playing video
games all day and then goes to hang out with his guys
at the club at night. If he has no hobbies, skills, or future
aspirations outside of his living room, you know you’ve
just encountered the attractive but exceedingly lazy
underachiever. When searching for a man, you should
always look for confidence, ambition and stability.
The Control Freak
>>Going out with this man is like dating your very strict
father. At first, his embrace may seem warm and secure.
But before long, you’ll be suffocating. It’ll start with
going to the restaurants he chooses, seeing the movies
he picks, hanging out with his friends and not yours. But
eventually he tries to dictate everything, from what you
wear to how you spend your free time. With a control
freak, you have to give up more and more of your
separate experiences, separate activities, separate
friends. And then it goes deeper to separate thoughts
and feelings until you no longer have an identity of your
own.
The Gadget Freak:
>>The gadget freak always likes to be called a ‘big boy’.
He has the hottest phone and a decked-out luxury car. In
other words, this guy has a lot of material things keeping
him busy. As a grown-up kid who can’t resist the new
plaything of the moment, he has a hard time keeping his
attention on women. After all, who can compete with
technology when it changes at lightning speed? This guy
cares more about stuff than people. (Bad sign.) With this
kind of outlook, women who date The Gadget Freak are
often left wondering if an upgraded model will make them
obsolete.
The Over Intimate Guy
If your guy is too eager for some intimacy, it’s never a
good sign. For one, he may act as if he’s extremely into
you just to get you into bed as soon as possible. He’s
the kind of guy that looks deep into your eyes and tells
you he never felt like this with any girl before just a few
days after meeting him! This guy comes across as
incredibly affectionate and might confuse you. If he’s the
player type, this is all an act to get you into bed.
The Cheap Guys
He invites a woman to dinner and then subtly suggests
she should pay the bill. He never splurges to buy her gifts
and he always opts for the cheapest stuff available. He
makes her feel like they’re on a tight budget from the
very first date. It’s just a few weeks into the relationship
and he’s already asking her for loans he would never pay
back. Ladies, this is someone to run away from.
The Cheaters
The Cheater doesn’t try to hide the fact that he’s
checking out other women while in her presence; he flirts
with the waitress and he even goes as far as to brag
about his past girlfriends. Overall, he lacks respect for
women. It’s a sad fact of life that some men are apt to
cheat on their wives and girlfriends, it should become
clear that most cheaters won’t change. Ladies, it’s time
to let him go once and for all. Send the cheater packing
and save the relationship that matters most – the
relationship you have with yourself!
The One Who Doesn’t Like Your Family
>>Nobody has a perfect family, but if your guy
consistently says he doesn’t want to be around your
family, refuses to attend events where they are present,
or is generally rude to them, this is a huge warning sign
for problems in the future. He should love you for you,
not your family, and he should respect you enough to
treat them with kindness, regardless of how he feels.
7 Clues To Tell Your Spouse Is Lying
1. Is her face giving it away?
You may think a smile can easily disguise your true feelings,
but the expressions that flash across a liar’s face will give
away what she’s really thinking—whether she knows it or not.
Experts advise paying close attention to hard-to-hide micro-
expressions; these clues are often so difficult to detect that
even trained experts have trouble discerning them. But you
may be able to spot a liar by the red color on her cheeks,
since anxiety can cause people to blush. Other indicators of
lying? Flared nostrils, lip nibbling, deep breathing, and rapid
blinking, which hint that the brain is working overtime.
2. Does the body language follow the story?
It’s more important to examine a person’s entire demeanor,
as there’s no one feature that’s apt to give away a liar.
Honesty is characterized by features that are in sync with one
another—so besides posture, note the fit between face, body,
voice, and speech. Like an animal avoiding detection, a liar
may pull his arms and legs inward or keep his movements to
a minimum—anything to appear smaller. Liars often shove
their hands behind their back because those fidgety digits
might give them away.
3. How is the person smiling?
A smile can sometimes mask a person’s true feelings. Pay
close attention to how a person smiles as well as other facial
movements. You may be able to detect the emotions he or
she is trying to hide—such as fear, anger, and disgust. A true
smile will incorporate both a person’s lips and eyes.
4. How is the person speaking?
Although a change in voice can be the tip-off to spot a liar,
experts say that to be sure, you should also pay attention to a
person’s speech rate and breathing pattern—if either speeds
up or slows down, chances are you’re not hearing the whole
truth.
5. What is the person saying?
Liars tend to avoid exclusionary words like “but,” “nor,”
“except,” and “whereas,” because they have trouble with
complex thought processes. Also, they are less likely to use
the words “I,” “me,” and “mine.” In their attempts to distance
themselves psychologically from their tall tales, liars will tend
to communicate using fewer personal pronouns.
6. Is your subject behaving uncharacteristically?
Experts believe changes in a person’s baseline—how she
generally conducts herself—are worthy of your attention. You
should weigh rate of speech, tone of voice, posture, and hand
gestures against what you know, along with the context of the
situation. When your husband says “I loved the tie you bought
me” while he’s wearing a tight smile that doesn’t reach his
eyes, expect to see him in a turtleneck.
7. Is the question simple or embarrassing?
It’s normal for someone to look away when asked a difficult
question. But when someone avoids your gaze when asked a
simple question, you should be suspicious.
Saturday, 21 February 2015
10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other!
Stephanie share this piece,I find it quite interesting so I
decided to bring it here
1. Stop Taking Each Other Down:
For a woman, it is another woman. As women, we need
to stop taking each other down with our words and
actions and rather focus on lifting each other up. The
world would be a much better place if we all did that.
2. Stop Comparing:
As women, we find it so easy to look at ourselves and
compare varying qualities that other women possess.
Each of us is created in our own unique and special way.
Let us try taking the time to realize the unique qualities
that each of us has rather than comparing.
3. Fighting Over Guys
Obviously, if your best girlfriend has an affair with your
guy, you have every right to scream and yell. That kind
of betrayal warrants anger, for sure. But most times, we
should take our anger out on our partners rather than
the other girl. Also, if your girlfriend is in a relationship
and you are not, don’t allow your jealousy and
frustration to get in the way of your friendship.
4. Criticizing Other People’s Weight:
There are very polite ways to make a complement on
another woman’s weight. But saying “oh my gosh you’re
so skinny” or “wow, you’ve added so much weight!”
might be more hurtful than we think it is.
5. Withholding Compliments
Not only is it bad to compliment someone negatively, it
is also wrong to withhold good compliments. If your
girlfriend has a really nice hairstyle on, or has lost some
weight and is looking great, go ahead and say it to her.
6. Telling each Other's Secret:
It’s really sad to confide in someone and find out that
the person has let out your secret to the wrong person.
Ladies, let’s not do this to ourselves.
7. Not been Supportive:
Many times as women, we desert our friends when they
need us the most. Its our friend’s wedding, birthday,
graduation, store opening…. and because we feel a
certain way about that achievement or milestone, we
don’t give our support. So wrong.
8. Stop Competing:
I wish I could scream this. Not everything in life is a
competition. No one has to really ‘win’ that best dressed
award or most expensive bag title. Focus on your own
qualities that are unique and special to you.
9. Comparing Our Bodies:
Hey ladies, we really need to stop this. Many of us have
done harmful things to our bodies in a bid to look like
the next person. Love who you are and don’t think you
need to look like anyone else.
10. Stop Hating:
I really didn’t know what to title this last point. It might
not be the appropriate word to use, but have you noticed
that some women just don’t like other women for
absolutely NO REASON? I’ve heard this a lot of times “I
don’t like that lady” and when you ask why, the response
is “I don’t know, I just don’t like her“. Maybe she walks
or talks in a certain way that you don’t feel comfortable
with and because of that, you conclude that you don’t
like her even though you hardly know her!
This gets me confused. Let’s continue this discussion in
the comment section. Ladies, why do you think we do
this to each other? How can we stop such habits?
What other things do we need to stop doing to each
other?
12 Real Signs Of True Love In A Relationship
True love may be hard to define, but the signs to
read true love can be clearly seen in every perfect
loving relationship.
If you’re in a relationship and want to know if you’re
experiencing the purest form of love, use these 12
signs of true love to find out for yourself.
#1. Give and take in love. You give to the
relationship wholeheartedly, without any desire or
expectations of getting something back in return
from your partner to justify your actions.
#2. Pure happiness. Just watching this special person
smile or laugh out loud fills you with intense
happiness, even if you’re suffering or having a hard
day.
#3. Pain and anger. You get terribly hurt when your
lover upsets you, but their actions never anger you.
You may get annoyed or frustrated now and then
momentarily, but you just can’t stay mad at them for
long because staying mad or giving them the silent
treatment hurts you more.
#4. Sacrifices. You make sacrifices for their happiness
or well being, even if they may never realize it.
#5. The right effort. You go to great lengths and
make an effort to improve the relationship, and play
a conscious part in trying to please your partner and
make them feel loved and special.
#6. You can't even hurt them. When you’re truly in
love with someone, you can’t even imagine hurting
them, emotionally or physically. Payback is a strong
human instinct, but true love makes you completely
selfless.
#7. You keep your promises. When you make a
promise to them, you stick to your word even if this
person will never find out if you broke their promise.
When you experience true love, your moral
conscience becomes very strong when it comes to
this one special person.
#8. WE. In a perfect relationship, it’s good to have
your own space to grow as individuals. But at the
same time, if you truly love your partner, you’d see
them as a part of your life. When you think of your
future, you can’t help but see them by your side.
#9. You share their burden. And you do that even if
you don’t really have to. You can’t bear to see this
special someone suffering. If they’re dealing with
some issue, you’re always willing to offer them a
helping hand even when you have your own
difficulties to look into.
#10. Pride and jealousy. You beam with pride when
they achieve something, even if it’s the same thing
you failed at. You may get jealous of a friend who
outdid you, but when you love someone, jealousy
never enters the picture.
#11. Suffering. You’d be willing to suffer, just to see
them happy.
#12. Their perspective. Everything you do, you keep
your lover in mind and think from their perspective,
be it about planning a surprise party or hanging out
with your own friends after work. You don’t ever want
to hurt your lover, so you always think from their
point of view before making any decision that
involves them in any way.
10 Simple Things Guys Do To Deceive GIRLS.. Which Won'tStop After Reading This!
Now I love my sisters and I'll do anything for them, and they
are one thing I'll always thank God for, coz they bring pain to
the guys in their lives. Well, I coach them to LOCK UP their
warehouse of abundance. As a semi-badt guy, guys have
tricks and I'll expose them here. Thank me with a PM if you
want more tips.
1. Using Slow Rhythm and Soft Tone: Whether on the phone
or in-person, the first simple thing a guy can do to deceive
you is when he lowers his voice tone to become soft and
speaks like he's talking to his great grandmother who just
had ear surgery. Ladies, you know what I'm saying... abi?
2. Smile: A genuine smile that has the sides of a guy's eyes
stretching along, will ALWAYS deceive you ladies into opening
up your shield. Watch for this one too. A smile can cost more
than the price they call. Na after you buy you go know the
difference between Isoko and Sokoto
3. Make you laugh : Like this post says, these are just simple
things guys do and this one is like the simplest and most
obvious. Ladies, trust me guys know this and I'm telling you a
secret. (hussssh! listen...) Guys believe that once they can
make you laugh, "it's finished" as put by my sweet Lord
Jesus. Maybe that's what helped Jesus with the women in his
life... he never made them laugh. I'm not sure I have an
antidote coz this trick really works.
4. Make you talk: A guy that knows 'wasup' will always make
you want to talk, and talk ONLY about yourself. Things that
concern you, your hairdo, your makeup and how so 'beautifully
ungodly' it is - and even what you think about the Big Brother
House girls! This tactic is simple. So simple. Once they get
you talking and talking and talking, trust me, they are ogling
at your chest, your lips and if it's really nice, your hair.
5. Walk slowly : A slow stride in a guy signifies some sort of
confidence. Ladies, am I right... that you NEVER get turned on
by a guy who walks SO FAST! Tap! Tap! Tap! Like he was
walking to secure the last seat before his molue leaves for
heaven! Once a guy steps slowly like, one... and... two...
and... one... and... two... trust me, the ladies start tripping.
6. Perfume: Hmmmmm... no need to talk about this. It's as
simple as I told you it'd be. The worst part, even a N1200
perfume can make a girl think, "Hmmm... just maybe"
7. Dress cute: Whether wearing the most expensive or the
cheapest, as long as the color goes well and the clothes are
ironed, ladies just start considering. If the guy con try add
good shoe with correct belt, aha! "It is finished" again...
Thank u Lord Jesus!
8. Clean Skin: O boy! I don't know where to start from in this
one. A 20-something year old lady almost raped me when I
was like 12 years old coz of my skin tone! Heck, why do you
think ladies love holding babies and cuddling them? Once a
guy maintains his skin well, no blemish, no pimple, all clean,
the ladies even start deceiving themselves. They be like,
"wow... he's SO competing with me"
9. Deepened Voice : Another simple trick that throws girls off-
balance. A guy's voice sounds deep, mustn't be bass, and the
ladies start doing "ten ten" in their minds. Na wa o. Don't
they even know this voice thing comes as early as puberty?
God help my 18-year old bro... the guy must be having
'selection problem'.
Some Prayer Lines Single Ladies Pray Before Stepping Out
This prayer point takes place in their heart.
As she walks on the street, communicate on Social Networks
etc, she prays these prayers.
1. May my husband to be locate me today. Amen!
2. Any broke ass niggar that may want to come my way.
Fire!!!
3. I call forth Shell workers today. They'll fight over me.
4. My ex- that useless boy, will not see my break light
forever!
5. Help me pretend well so he can admire me from afar!
6. As I'm trekking under this hot sun, may a rich, single,
handsome and gentle guy pick me up in his Range Rover
Sports. Amen, by Fire! 3 X
7. Any girl blindfolding my husband to be from seeing me...
be lost and not be found ever. Amen!
8. As I walk and roll it, let it cause waves! May he notice
me!
Ladies, Am I saying the truth?
Happy Weekend
Friday, 20 February 2015
How To Spot Ladies Desperately Looking For Boyfriends
We all know that NO lady would ever admit chasing a
guy. They also chase dudes in a coded manner and
pretend they don't probably because they are naturally
born pretenders. They are always like, despite the species
of guys begging me to date them" God forbid I woo a
man", if he can't make advances, let him bleep off jawe
Without much ado, lemme keep the ball rolling
Just grab your mat and if you don't have one, kindly sit
on your coconut tree
1. She Utilizes Opportunity
She spots a guy whom she likes standing in front of her
compound, she tries to come out even if she has nothing
doing outside and that's when she remembers the grass
in front of their house has not been cleared since the time
of Soddom and Gommara, she goes inside and picks a
cutlass and while cutting, she starts gazing at him hoping
he would come to say "oooooh pretty, lemme do this for
you".. Hahaha !!!
2. Status Updates
You see updates like, "I'm a woman of virtue and I know
it"; anyone who finds the key to my heart finds a treasure;
I really want to know what love is.. This updates however
catches fancy
3. Chilling Alone At The Eatery
She might just get dressed and chill at the nearest eatery.
She orders for what she wants and pretends she only
came to enjoy herself and nothing more but deep within
herself, she's hoping a random dude would come and ask
her why she is seated all alone
4. She's Wants You To Strike Up A Convo
Imagine you both met each other at a shop and she was
being attended to because she came earlier than you.
After buying her stuffs, she no go go lae lae.. She remains
there hopin you would say hi to her.. **many ladies
would deny this**
5. Smiling Unnecessarily
Hahaha Someone that doesn't smile at home will
start smiling the way Usain Bolt smiles when he wins
gold medal. You "hi" her and she's already smiling
6. She Includes Her Phone Number/PIN On Social
Network
You see her PIN/phone number on social media. She
purposely included it in her profile because she knows
request would definitely be rolling in from various species
of dudes
7. She Gives You Close Marking
You are both reading in the classroom and the moment
she spots you, she packs her book and sits next to you.
She's like, pls can you explain COM 101 to me better
because I find it difficult to comprehend. **if I hear say
na her mission be dat **
8. She's Extraordinary Humble
When frustration of boyfriend comes, a very rude lady
becomes extra ordinarily nice and you'd be like, this babe
is humble to the core. (Ironically she's not like that at
home).
9. She Sends You Friend Request & Denies It
She must have heard about you so she decided to add
you up. She pretends she doesn't know how you got into
her list
10 . NOTICE ME Attitude
When she sees various species of dudes clustered around
a particular place, she keeps doing things just to get
noticed.. She starts speaking grammar stylishly gazing at
them if what she's saying is audible
*** Feel free to add yours ***
Thursday, 19 February 2015
She Broke Up With Me Because I Am Igbo
received this from a user ...read message below......
there is this girl named Anita that I was dating for two
months, in may 2014. immediately she found out I was ibo,
she said she hates my tribe with passion, that all we care
about is money..money & said it was over. I begged her, that I
'm not like that, besides I was born in Edo state to Ibo
parents. eventually she left
l began working hard, got employed at Hi tech construction
company, worked there for six months and I finally
hammered... got a new apartment, new car & I became the
talk of the town.. *not proud*
One Saturday morning, I went to buy airtime, I saw Anita's
parent crying and begging their landlord, I went closer , saw
some boys throwing out their properties, I asked the landlord
why, he said they can't pay their two years rent which was
160k, I rushed home signed a check gave it to the landlord,
they returned back their loads and everybody was looking at
me. since that day, Anita parents have been calling me their
son, and Anita won't let me be. its either she's the one
calling, knocking at the door begging me. I was like okay fine,
I forgive you. But, she wants us to be together AGAIN...
All I want from you AC readers is your Advice.. cos I am
planning on getting married this year. I need the right woman.
THANKS
8 Signs Of A Husband Material
You find such a guy and you begin to form for him? There
must be something wrong somewhere
How do you know he is an husband material?
1. He calls you often and asks how your day went.
He does this in a friendly manner. He doesn't "act" it.
2. He visits you on sick bed and perhaps sleeps there with
you.
This implies that he is willing to accept your "ups" and your
"downs" alike.
3. He loves your siblings as his own.
He loves your siblings and plays with them carefreely? Haba,
think about it!
4. He talks to you with respect.
He doesn't talk down on you even when you talk flippantly. He
ignores without and scolds within with respect.
5. He doesn't force sex on you.
He loves you so much that he won't force anything you're not
comfortable with including premarital sex.
6. He gives you cash when you need it.
He is responsible in your financial issues. He likes giving to
you to the best of his capacity. He even tells you his whole
salary . He loves you then.
7. He tells you the truth not minding how you feel. He later
pets you
He doesn't leave you to yourself. He scolds within but with
love. He draws you back with one hand however. He doesn't
sleep with malice.
8. He talks of his future plans with you in it.
He plans his future and includes you. That's a major sign.
Ladies, this kind of guy exist. Don't give up on us yet. Naija
guys are all you need. At least, I am here
Tuesday, 17 February 2015
Seven Ironies Of Ladies
DISCLAIMER: If this thread doesn't apply to you, don't
condemn it. It applies to a lot from my keen observation.
You wonder what's in her heart sometimes. If you look at her
façade and expression, you may miss out- look inward.
It is ironical sometimes when you can't decipher what a lady
really wants, : she connotes A and truly wants J. Hmm
Seven Irony Of Ladies Are:
1. The "bossy-looking" ones are usually the most simple
ones.
She talks and acts like a woman of action. At work, she is
strict and firm , don't you dare think she unemotional. She's
just too "built up" and proud to admit it. If you are pester her
with so much care and sweet words, she'll open up to you
"yakata"! This works 99.9%.
Mind you, She was doing all that because she's too scared of
a heart break.
2. The Ones That Snubs You And Doesn't "Send You" Is
Actually Into You
Come to think of it. You're one of the most popular guys in
your department. Every lady talks to you except her. She
doesn't look your direction is a more sure sign she is madly
in love with you. Chill out! Watch it, she knows you on
Facebook. In NL, she doesn't like to be seen viewing your
thread sef
3. The Quiet Ones Are Often The Most Corrupt.
Hian! How many times have we seen a very gentle looking girl,
well dressed and meek. You then hear of things...things she's
been exposed to. You're like, what! Take your eyes off loud
chicks, keep them on quiet ones. Have you heard? Green
snake in the green grass?
Check her phone and see her pix, videos and messages. Hmm,
her message box is often empty. lolzz.
4. The Indoor Ones Are Often Loudmouthed on Social Network
Lol! See her in real life and you'll see a boring person to be
with. Even chat her up and you'll regret why. In NL? She is a
TIGER about to devour. She talks dirty and flirty.
In real life...leave the matter for matthias joor!
5. The Ones That Always Want To "Correct" You Cares For
You
Don't get it twisted. If she storms your thread with a battalion
of army, don't reply with hate. MOST TIMES, she likes you.
Don't feel infuriated too soon. Why? Love corrects.
6. The Naturally Pretty Ones Are Often Shy To Face People.
You would think these set will be outgoing and all of that, but
most at times, they are just simple. They have simple lives.
Wear simple clothes. Spend half a day on their iPhone.
This is often misquoted for pride and ego whereas she is just
shy. Guy, dig deeper!
7. The Un-Pretty Ones Are Assuming The Office Of "Hard-To-
Gets".
Lol! I don't know why. I can't explain it. I just don't
understand. It's not like you should not "form", but for how
long? "Shoe has size" isn't for only guys o...Abeg, park well,
say Yes to him before he sends you to Recycle bin and still
deletes you.
You know yourself, I know myself
Be yourself, you are not Miley Cyrus, KK, Barbie or
Rihanna...You're You!
Be You!
Good evening
